I'm fed up...

People are always trying to tell me to be this &* be that but nobody ever wants to listen to what i want to do.........they're always trying to tell me who to be! :(

....ok....

It doesn't matter what people want you to be or what they say because in the end it is your decision, brush it off and keep on moving.

I no what ur saying people need too use their own advice before trying to give it to people

^^ i agree.

no one should have control to tell you who you are, who your going to be, where your going to go, where you've been.

lol i could go on =)

but end of the story here, friends should listen to you, if they also want to be heard =)

I don't know why people often do this i.e ignoring and avoiding..
but anyways you should try to have a bit of conversation with your family and friends and just show them what u feel like..
surely u'll relax after the friendly chat..
i know its hard as i also usually go through the same stage u r going through...but, anyways try to be cool...

This may be long...or is might be short I'm not sure yet :P

But This is my opinion:

I think you should stand up and TELL them who YOU want to be. You shouldn't let people push you around like that. People CAN'T tell you who to be because you are you and that is final. And if they don't listen make them listen. And if your friends tell you to be a different person then maybe you shouldn't consider them friends hun. Friend's accept you for who you are and it sounds like your friends don't. So just try to stand up for yourself and be who you think you are. It doesn't matter about what other people's opinions of you are just as long as you know who you are. Then everything should work out :) This happened to me once but ha, I finally worked through it and I showed nearly everyone that I can be who I want to be and I don't need them to tell me who I am. So you should do the same :) xxxx I wish you the best of luck.
mwah xxxxx

Oh and PM me if there are any problems...I'll be glad to help you ^^ xxx

Be yourself. Only you know what's best for you, so don't listen to anyone else.

I guess lots of people have that problem, what I do is say ok ok ok, then do whatever I want.