Why is she doing this to me?

My cousin and I havn't talked in 2 months because she was writing love letters to my b/f even though she is married and she was denying it and calling me a liar. So I find out today that she and her husband have moved to my town after she and her and her husband got evicted from their appartment in a town about 1 hr away from me. My b/f ran into her on his way to work and she talked to him. She told him where they were living and where she was working. She told him not to tell me. She also asked him if he could hang out tonight and he told her he was going to be working so she asked him to hang out with her tomorrow but he never answered her. We are seriously thinking about moving to get away from her. I just told him to tell her if she ever asked about me, that I had moved (even though I havn't really). I just don't know what to do with her. Any advice appreciated.

Wow..if that was me i would tell her whats up..

what does your boyfriend say about all this?

I remember you posting about this before, what i don't get is why your bf doesn't tell her to get lost, especially if he has no interest in her advances or her drama.

What kind of cousin would do that...
stay away from her asap!!
Dont let her get close enough to your b/f.
What is your bf saying about all of this?

My b/f keeps telling her he wants nothing to do with her...and for the last 2 months she has left us alone...That is until yesterday when she saw him and wanted to "hang out" with him alone and didn't want me to know anything about it. She actually asked him yesterday if she could cook him dinner at her house while her husband was there so they could talk and "get to know each other better" but he said no. And then today I hear that she has written him another love letter, this time claiming that she caught me with another guy at a hotel, my b/f does not believe her or anything though.

Also last night while we were on the phone (me and my b/f) we were talking about what to do to get her to leave us alone and I told him that it didn't seem like she was going to go anywhere so if we wanted to get away from her we'd have to be the ones to move. And he said he was ok with that, but not until he had a better job so that he could put away enough money for us to live together comfortably. And he said he wanted to wait 3 yrs for me to finish college and by then he would have the money saved that we needed. He also said he either wanted to move to Florida or California because he wanted to be in a place that he doesn't know very well because he has been living in the same state for his entire life and he is sick and tired of knowing where everything is and having no fun seeing new and interesting things anymore, but I told him that Florida was way to hot for me in the summer, so he said that he deff. did want to move away with me as soon as we were ready and we'd have pleanty of time to figure out where. In the mean time we'd just try to stay away from my cusin as much as possible, and if that didn't work we may just have to file a restraining order on her and possibly her husband.

My b/f has saved every one of her love letters. I will tell him to give them to her husband next time he sees him, but I know my cousin will just lie to try to get herself out of being in trouble, but hey anything's worth a try at this point.

Wow,you should confront her about it and deff. show the husband what shes doing is just wrong

We have shown her husband the letters just the other day, but my cousin told him that it wasn't her and then she took me aside and asked me if I knew who it could be because it wasn't her and then she started naming off some of my friends that she was trying to pin it on.

Oh. I really dislike that girl. I really think that you need to give her a piece of your mind and if that doesn't work, get a restraining order. She is a major creep who is obviously not that into her husband if she is that hard up to hang out with your bf.

I have an idear. why dont u tell ur bf to play along with her skankyness and have her husband hide somewhere and spys on her and when she goes to kiss ur man her husband should jump out and suprise her or video record her cracking on to your bf. i video recorded this girl kissing another guy and the other guy was taken by my best mate and i showed her the video and her bf she was going out with at the time and didnt she cop it. she got dumped and smashed

I dunno what to do with her...No matter what I do she just doesn't listen. 2 days ago she walked down to my b/f's work with her husband and demanded he buy her a cake for who knows why and he said no. Then she asked him if he'd go to meet her and her b/f near this resturant the next day so all 4 of us could go to caraokee (sp?) he told her no and then the next day she called up his phone screaming at us for ditching her. Duh he said no...I just don't know sometimes.
He told me today that he is just about to put a restraining order on her if she keeps ANY more of her crap up.

We will as soon as we can because we are supper busy now but deff. it is really important...Though he just told me (because I am on the phone with him) that he blocked her number on his phone as well as the resturant that she was calling from (because that was where she worked). We're doing what we can because we don't want to see this get any more out of hand than it already has.

Agreed Amanda. Restraining order.....ASAP

Well recently, (like this week), she called the cops on my b/f and told them he stole her pet hamster, but in reality she asked him like 3 weeks ago if he could pet sit for her for a while and he said yes. The she accused his mother of trying to sleep with her husband and she didn't becsuse she knows better and she thinks he is disgusting. And then her husband left a message on my myspace saying that my b/f is having sex with his ex (who he can't stand at all) and is asking my cousin if he can have sex with her and that he'd even pay her $25 to do so, (yet he finds her repulsive). We are going down to the police station as soon as we have time this week and filing a restraining order on her and trying to get her on harassment.