Thinking

I thought about this for years now, and i realised something. I will only be happy with people like me. and i want to start a foundation for it. tell me if its a good idea and why.

That's not right... How would you know that you won't be happy unless you're with people like you?

It's important to have something in common with the people you meet and be have relationships with, but that doesn't mean you can't be happy and get along with others. The "thing" in common could be as simple as you live in the same country, and I think it's impossible to have nothing in common with anybody in the world, there has to be something. Another thing is that we live in a diverse world, people are different, by nature. You can't live with only people who are like you, because you'll have to deal with others in your community and because having that belief can turn you biased.

You can be happy with people who are not like you, actually I can sort of guarantee that. Opposites attract, that's a fact... I'm not saying go look for your opposites, but if opposites attract then what you're saying is not true. Everyone can live a happy life with anyone, as long as those people are true friends and truly care about you.

I have noticed that you post a lot of pessimistic topics like this. Happiness is not something linked to your liking, there is no perfect world, there is no utopia. Happiness is a realization, that the world holds more love and beauty than you can understand. Look around you, you'll hear music in the simplest of sounds, you'll see kindness in people you thought were mean... happiness is that realization, when you feel that the world you're in has more good than it does evil. Look at your life, try realizing the good things in it and look at the unfortunate things as a lesson to learn from, or a blessing which has prevented something worse... think of people in life who have it worse than you do.

Basically what I understand from your post is that you have trouble finding friends and that you don't trust anyone who isn't like you. Be patient, and look for the good in people. Don't judge people before you know them and always trust people to love you and care for you (be careful with who you trust though)... You're still young, you'll find your place in the world someday.. just keep positive.

I do encourage you to start a foundation for something though, but not one for people like you. You can start one for something you have in common with people... like a hobby or something. To keep you occupied with something and give you something to do and care about.

NOONE GETS IT! I WANT TO HELP KIDS LIKE ME! I GOTS ASPERGURS SYNDROME! I WANT TO BE HAPPY AND TALK TO KIDS LIKE ME!

I am an adult aspie and the neuro typical folks tell me it is not unusual for me to leave out important details while starting a conversation. I think a teen support group is a good idea.

Well sorry i got mad..... i forget to add detail sometimes.

Thats odd. i think society needs diversity