How Do You Kiss?

Okay, my girlfriend and I are really close and I think we may kiss in the near future. I'm kind of afriad because it will be my first kiss so I would like to know how you kiss. I'm sorry if I sound lame I'm just nervous and excited and I want everything to go perfectly. Plus she has alot of experience with such things. Help me please.

well... it's kinda hard to explain

are you talkin about french kissing? just to clear things up

i rememer how nervous i was b4 my first kiss, to tell u the truth its easy. as soon as u start kissin u just know wat to do an its keeps gettin better. hav fun wiv it. dont b too rough at first, be gentle. ul b fine

I was vervous for my first kiss, but my boyfriend at the time was nervous too, so we kind of laughed together and just did it, however I was chewing gum, which I wouldnt recommend for your first kiss lol, it just gets in the way the first time, but later on it can be fun when you know what you're doing ;).

Dont worry, you wont be bad, its very natural actually, just go slower than faster and dont shove your tongue all the way down her throat. She will take the lead because she will probably sense that you're nervous, so just chill and do back to her what she does to you.

lol Forsaken

GO WITH THE FLOW

i agree...... dont worry! just do what ever comes along..

Don't kiss right away! Get her tempted first!

As posted in another kissing thread:

Pay attention kids I'm about to do you all a favour.
This applies to boys kissing girls as well.

A lot of the whole kissing thing is in the build up; the subconcious body language not the actual kiss at all.

Get all close and cuddly, DO NOT go straight for the kiss.

Use fleeting eye contact, a few seconds at a time. Look away to the sides or preferrably down toward his chest (Never look up).

Whisper something in his ear... what you say is unimportant, be it you find him sexy to pass me my pencil case... doesn't really matter, something suggestive but indirectly sexy is preferrable.

As you go to whisper in his ear lightly brush his skin with your nose, catch his jaw, his ear lobe, his cheek. Very soft so that you're barely touching.

Run a finger down the edge of his ear, down the neck, use a really light touch. Run you hand through his hair (if he's not got a ton of gel on).

Breathe warmly into his ear as you speak.

If you are holding his hand run your finger tips over his PALM, not the back of his hand. Follow lines, creases and along the fingers.

He should be primed and ready... but do it for a good five minutes (it is an idea to have a topic prepared. A romantic movie you want to see, a new tight top or something simple like how your days have gone). Small talk, big talk, whatever... just talk.

You'll now be able to ram a loo brush down his neck and he'll still love it.

The whole point is preparation, enticement and seduction. You girls love sexual foreplay, right? Well even with guys sensual foreplay is important as well even though most of us lads don't know it.

Signs that it is working:

His head will tilt slightly towards yours or backwards.

He'll run his hand through his hair or touch his nose.

He'll touch you.

He'll laugh or crack a joke.

See how it goes.

Bert

Naturally this can be adapted for girl on girl and boy on boy too... you don't have change anything on the list, just the orientation of your partner. *winks*

Bret should write for Cosmo.....

Good advice. If you can hold a guys attention long enough to get some GOOD foreplay into the equation, he will realize how much it can add to the... um.... situation.

ahh dont worry I had my first kiss like a year ago and it was kidna weird but then after that is just comes to you it is like natural.

Bret should write for Cosmo....

I'd write for a bloke's magazine if I had to... not for cosmo though, that would be like sleeping with the enemy... hold on a mo....

i love kissing
i love everything like that!!!!
any ways thats not what we are talking about so

i always get really close to him
and start kissing smal
then i look into his eyes
and then i go crazy
lots of touching
and moving
it always ends up us having a very good time!!!
and sometimes more!! LOL
lots of tounge
and lots of touching
EVERYWHERE
always works for me

lol
"Fun"

awww all u been kiss =/ and the first time with my ex-gf i thought she was gonna kiss me... but i was wrong... hHAHA how sad? i never been kissed =/

Bret-
Wow....pretty enlightening...of course, us frenchies don't need your help! :-P I like gently brushing his lips and then a tiny little kiss, with open mouth, but no tongue. Do as many as needed. Then you can gently place your tongue into the other person's mouth. DO NOT JUST STICK IT IN AND START FLOPPING AROUND. Do little flickers maybe and do not always move in a continuous circle movement. I once read in a book "Do the alphabet with your tongue." I can't remember if I've ever tried it, because I just get so caught up in the kiss that I forget. ^_^ You can place your hands around their waist, on their shoulders, around their neck, or anywhere you see fit. If your faces are just pushed to each other and your arms are hanging limply by your sides, it's not that fantastic. lol
If you are making out, you do not only have to kiss. Lip and ear nibbles are very, very sexy. Also, neck kissing. Gently flick their neck with a quick touch of the tongue, I've found it makes guys shiver....in a good way. Also, rub up and down their spine.

Wow, I think that's enough for now....

Smile, take a breather and repeat as necessary.

xoxZoexox

P.s. Have fun and good luck!

P.p.s. Remember, if this is her first kiss, she might be nervous too. It doesn't have to be perfect, just remember, practice makes perfect, so practice, practice, PRACTICE! (on her of course)

P.p.p.s. Breathe through your nose...PLEASE.