Need some help.. please?

Im having trouble being social in a relationship im in. I was wondering if anyone could help me with some tips on how to be more social. Everytime me and her talk on the phone we dont have much to talk about and then silence comes in. How can I become more social and bring better conversation into play? Please help

thanks~

This is a confidence issue... thats the problem 99% of the time.

The topics you talk about are only limited by your imagination. Books films, your day, poetry, this board, parents, quija boards, sex drugs rock and(or) roll.

Just start talking about random things, ask for her opinion on it, ask how it makes her feel... practice makes perfect.

Last night we talked about how pompous of a word molding is. Really, anything.

Classic.

yeah! Randomness is the best thing in the world!!
My boyfriend and I talked for 4 hours about random things... it was great!!

First off you dont need to talk everyday, everyone runs out of things to talk about if they talk everyday at 16.

Secondly you can ask her random questions that are kind of silly and will spir different conversations. You could do things like 20 questions or "would you rather" but pretty much if you dont naturally have alot to talk about maybe you shouldnt be together, or maybe you are forcing talking too much.