How do u admit ur rong?

You accept the fact you were wrong and go about correcting your ways.

-Laura.

hold your hands up, say you were wrong and then set about fixing it.

There always consequences, you have to accept that and take them on the chin.

depends wat the consequences of admitting is

Even if you don't admit it openly, in your heart of hearts you know you're in the wrong. That's enough consequence in Its own.

Facing others is just a part of baring the load of your decision/mistake. [I'm assuming it was one of those]

It's not easy, but It's part of life I suppose.

-Laura.

well if you are going to die thats wat I ment like you say " I was wrong" and your friend stabs you

try to fix it
not in my case tho

just tell whoever you were wrong, right up front....what's the worst that could happen?

Kalika

Just admit that you were wrong, and try to put it right in whatever way you can. If you run away from it, it'll simply stay with you and haunt you.

xx

Why don't you just tell us what happened? It's not like I'm going to judge... can't speak for anyone else though.

o0o0o i think thats kinda bad but try to fix it. Sorry I don't have much more to say cuz I haven't gone through thats yet Im only 12 for petes sake

~ShAtTeReD*HeArT~

Yurp, that's a up there with the biggest cock ups of history and to be honest I don't see a way out.

When you say fucked around, do you mean flat out fucked or just fooled around?

Well, you clearly regret it. So the damage is not irrepairable. *thinks* Give me a few minutes.

Ok, you can turn it around on his mates. Not the nicest of things to do, but they are just as wrong in this as you are.

Get all of them together and tell your b/f. He can't be angry at just you, although I wouldn't expect him to be you b/f afterwards.

hmm before you do that, how much of it was you and how much of it was the other two. Did you want it as much or do you think you were pressured a bit?

Before you answer, consider that I cannot help unless you are 100% HONEST.

ok, fair enough. Then you're going to have to say what happened how it happened and why you didn't tell him straight away.

What happens after is not your choice and you'll have to live it too. Admit you're wrong, accept the consequences and move on from there. You can learn so much more from that than hiding it and you'll regain some self respect again too.

Honesty of self and to others is the first step. Although (I am sure) it will be a painful experience, admitting your wrong doing is a great thing for the soul and you'll the benefit of it.

Ignorance is bliss, but knowledge, whilst often painful leads us to enlightenment and acceptance.

Hide in ahole if you like, but it doesn't change what happened, you just wind up getting dirty in a hole.

Sure, if you like the dark ever growing depression, go for it.

Life is about learning, experiencing, making mistakes and atoning for them.

Without atonement you don't learn or grow.

Only one way to get self respect, dignity, discipline and inner peace. But by all means enjoy the hole.

It's pretty simple really:

Admit your mistakes and try to fix them

Okay this is going to sound bad of me but here's my opinion.

If you trust your bf's friends and you really think that they wouldnt say anything, then don't say anything to your bf. He'll never know. If your not strong enough to hide the guilt then this suggestion isn't for you. But on the downfall of that, your bf could find out from somsone else and that's going to be a MILLION times worst then telling him yourself. I know this isn't going to help you much but...why did you do it? You should've thought about what would happen. Hormones? You fight temptation my friend....As for your bf....my sympathy goes to him.

Yeah, mistkes will happen regardless. But I always prefer the mistakes of honesty to those of inaction.

Fool - you never admit your wrong LoL

Why's that?

The right thing to do differs greatly from person to person, I'm just interested in why people think how they do.

if im wrong i dont say i am ... too much pride... too much pride can kill a person....

best start admitting then.

I'm like that too. I have my dignity to maintain. If I did something worth regretting, and trust me it happens all of the time, it depends on the way my "friend" reacts too it. Whether or not she says I'm doing blah blah for attention or not. In this case, which I'm experiencing right now, she can apologzie to me because i didnt' do anything.

I summarize it briefly, I've been experiencing a lot of stress lately, mainly from family, but some from school and friends, and recently, I caved. I started to cut, but not deep. And I blindly told my friends. They ditched me. They yelled at me, told me I was stupid, and left me. I've forgiven one of them because she apologized, but the other went to far. She prays that I will die a horrific, bloody, painful, slow death becuase I, quote, "slit my wrists so badly. I want your mother to come in and beat you to death so that you can truly be dramatic. It's what you want, now isn't it, Sierra?" She told me that and I hate her fucking guts. Just saying my sad sob tale. She also prays that my Papa dies from his cancer really soon. I was close to strangling her. :-D. I'm hanging in there though.

Teys, last time I checked this was the fucking sadness and depression section. I have the same right as the rest of the depressed people here to write about what's on my mind. So, whats on my mind right now is that if I were you I'd back the hell off. And as for what I can do about them, I can't you fuck head. I will be beaten within an inch of my life if I ever tried. You don't know the first thing about me, so B.A.C.K. the HELL off!!!!!!!!!!!!!

you shut the fuck up you fucking fucktard. I never asked for your empathy anyways.

~Sierra

It goes to show how much you know. It is an expression that is sometimes used that goes like, "I was _____________ within an inch of my life." Maybe you haven't heard it, but your ignorance is not my issue. Secondly, I don't cut because I want to die. I hate life for what has been done to me, but I do not want to die. And you're wrong on that little saying of yours-I've never once done something to be treated the way I have, and I have tried to make it all good, but theres really nothing I can do.

If there is something you should learn about me from this, its that I'm stubborn. And when someone challenges me, I'll attempt it despite my weakened state. I'm only weak in the mind, not in the body. Just as I may have to accept that you have your opinions and values, you will have to accept that about me.

But you're greatly mistaken if you think that I started this fight. You did and it is written up there when you first told me to quit telling everyone my woes.

Lastly, what would you know about forming sentences when you don't capitalize a single word you say and you use all of these abbreviations for what you really mean? Talk about hipocracy.....

~Sierrra

tEyS (annoying typing to start with), you sound like a four year old with ADHD. Sort it out sunshine.

Manners maketh man.

Haha, Bret. I just realized that I spelled my name wrong!! Lol-oops

~Sierra