am i BI???

  • GoddessOfWings
    20 years ago

    Ok, i am really confusing myself. I think i might be Bi. It's just that, in almost every relationship that i've been in (with a guy), i've been there for love, but never recieved it. Now, with girls, i kinda get a bit hot when im with a girl, i don't know why and im freaking myself out. I sit talking to a girl and i imagine kissing her, what it would be like, and then doing a little bit more...and it kinda gets me a bit turned on...WHAT'S GOING ON?!?! Im SOO confused!! I like guys, when i think about guys and love i get that feeling in my stomach, also known as butterflies...but with girls, i dont, i dont feel comfortable with thinking about 'love' with another girl, i just get really hot lol. What do i do? Am i BI?! PLEASE, any help would b really appreciated. And if u come into this post, read it, and feel like being an ass and making fun of me or sumthing, just piss off, i dont care what you have to say. But any help, please!! :S Thank you!
    Gurdy x (GoddessOfWings)

  • She Is Now Gone Away
    20 years ago

    U mit be just going through a stage but no one will really know but you really and im sorry i cant help you but this is all i got to say

  • GoddessOfWings
    20 years ago

    no no no, i appreciate all of your help, ur very kind. Thanks both of u...it's just that, im not sure myself! lol.
    Gurdy x (GoddessOfWings)

  • Kaitlin Kristina
    20 years ago

    Haha, your name is confused!!

    OK. I'm over it.

    I think that everyone goes through a little bit of curiosity, but you'll navigate your way through it. Even if you are bi and have an interest in women it doesnt mean that you cant be with men, just keep doing what you're doing and you'll find out soon enough.

  • jOdY StAr*
    20 years ago

    I think maybe you've been through a lot of stuff with guys to the point that you feel like girls will satisfy you the way a man can't. I know how you feel but maybe you just need to experience being with a girl and see how it makes you feel. It may or may not be what you expect.

  • She Is Now Gone Away
    20 years ago

    Hey everyone here has a good point but non of us can actually help you but you the only thing we can do 4 u is give u hints but sometimes hints dont work so it's up to u to find out wat is the real answer.

  • Barbara Jean
    20 years ago

    BICURIOUS

    TRY IT AND IF YOU DONT LIKE IT THEN YOU ARENT BI

  • GoddessOfWings
    20 years ago

    thanks everyone. Im gonna hav a think about it and see how it goes... thanks!!
    Gurdy x (GoddessOfWings)

  • Incognito
    20 years ago

    Maybe you should just try not to worry bout it too much, just do what feels natural at the time and then later you will just know whats right for you. Lots of people experiment before they realise what it is they truly want.

  • ღ Christina ღ
    20 years ago

    I have a friend whos in the same situation but its a little different! Maybe you shud try talking to her! Im not really good in this topic, but almost anythingg else! SO if you need to talk im here!

    BTW my friends name is clarissa!

  • NK
    20 years ago

    lol i went through that stage.. i started looking at guys.. but then i realised i just wasn't the wuss i used to be and could have an opinion on how ppl looked..... lol u'll get over it and being bi means u get the best of both worlds

  • EpithetPoet
    20 years ago

    you never know til you try i suppose. you are the only one who can say whether you're bi or not. hope it all goes well.
    -A