My Story

Ok I read it now, I agree with ~Broken Inside~

then don't.

If you want people to respond you're going to have to sum that up. Half of that wasn't even necessary to put in, I found 3 or four paragraphs you could have summed up into one sentence.

my advice: wittle it down to 3 paragraphs, then people will start talken.

Hey
Im not picky about length, so I read the whole thing...but.. like you said, you cant just love someone after youve hardly known them hun... you just have really strong feelings for her, people tend to want things they cant have...
If you ever need to talk though Im here alrite?

-xx-

If people don't want to read it then why do you have to post....
Anyway, I read it and I agree with ^

Nick sweetie...You're 15....this kind of stuff is just starting!!

It hurts like hell. I know. I've been there. A lot. My last boyfriend told me he loved me, just to take it back in a couple of weeks, saying that he didn't mean it like that.

But see...I'm great friends with him now! It hurt for awhile to even talk to him, but I moved on.

That's what you need to do. Become great friends with her. Because think about it...if you are great friends with her, then you have less of a chance of getting hurt so bad that you don't want to ever see her again. If you keep going after a relationship, you're going to keep getting hurt, and it's going to get to the point that you disent yourself from her, and get hurt way more then you need to, and might even lose her.

It's just a thought but sweetheart, you're still young. Go be a youngster and flirt around! Find another girl to be "in love" with. You said that you still love her...but maybe...it's not the same kind of love. You have in your mind that you want to be with only her because you love her so much, but maybe in your heart, you love her like your best friend.

I wish that I could be of more help, but that's really all I got! Good luck!

Well said SatinRisse :)

you gotta remember nick...that talking to someone over the net is alot different than in person..and i reckon that there might be a chance if you started talking to her in person your feelings might change because without her in person your building her up into a really great person she might not be...i cant say she isnt a great person but you never know

Like pyragus, I think this girl really doesn't deserve any of you, she's treating you like crap. Just using you. You really need to try and get her out of your head. Maybe you should try going out with some friends and doing something that you never did with her, I don't know, skate boarding or something. ... Ok, now I'm off to sort out my own love life x

Wow. This girl sounds like a bitch. She doesn't deserve you, she deserves a guy that would use her, THEN she would know how you feel.

You gotta get over her, she aint worth it.

But, that story was LONG, just a tip, try to sum it down a bit, I was fortunately bored, so I read the whole thing.

Logic...love...keep little company. And mad men have no ears, so I'm sure you aren't going to listen to any of the advice given here.

I don't know how much of a bitch she is...she's manipulative, yes, but mean...maybe...I really can't judge. It sounds like she may not know that you know she broke up with you because "you ignored her.." or whatever. She may think it may just be because she was just using you to make Grant jealous. I think this is a lie. Maybe a half-truth, but it's usually a lie.

I think she may have actually felt something for you at first. Sure, it might have just been lust or some spell, but whatever it was, we can call it "like." I mean, she didn't know, but she thought you were a pretty cool guy, and thought you deserved a chance. Her complaint against you for "ignoring her..." or whatever and only talking to Sarah, maybe exagerated, but it doesn't change how she felt.

And maybe you do come off as a little emotionally distant. Most guys do. Even so-called sensitive ones. It's very easy to take these things for granted. She should be a little more mature and not over-react, but...it's a two-sided thing. She may realise this is immature, and so that's why she says it's worse and refuses to tell you.

As to how she feels about you now, well, I think agreeing to go on the ferris wheel with you is a good start.

Mad man...no, that was just me quoting Shakespeare. Love makes everyone mad, as he says.

'oh' is a good response. a little bit responsive without seeming needy. the "good friend' speech is okay too. remember, you're only 15. don't grow up too quick.

aww nick that's so sad =*(...im sorry...love hurts so much smetimes...*big hug*

-brittnay-