If you could....would you?

  • Court
    19 years ago

    Ok i got to thinking about this for some reason....

    If you had this crush or whatever that you were in love with and you wanted to spend the rest of your life with, but they didn't exactly "love" you, and you had a "magic spell" would you make them love you???

    Like when you did the "spell" ya'll would be the happiest people alive, ya'll loved each other more than anything or anyone. And like you were the only one that knew that u did the "spell".

    Would you rather live with the person you love and they didn't love you in the beginning,knowing that it's only because YOU made it happen. OR would you rather just be friends with that person and let life go on and let ya'll each find your own loves eventually.....

    I really hope that all makes sense.....its kinda early....so it might not make sense.....just let me know if it doesnt....

    please reply!!!

  • InMyWorld
    19 years ago

    Personally, i wouldn't do the spell...just because i would feel awful at the fact that i made someone do something, and that the only reason they loved me was because i put the spell on them...

    i'd probably go out and try and meet many other guys and just let my possibilities open up and start dating, the feelings might not go away quickly or totally, but they'll fade and we'll both be happy :)

  • Sarah Ann
    19 years ago

    I would use the spell...Sure I would feel guilty, but that feeling would pass once we both are happy for the rest of our lives...

    Selfish? I think not, imagine what many would do if they had that power.

  • Bret Higgins
    19 years ago

    Love is a matter of free will.

    Using a spell is just another form of brainwashing.

  • sandra
    19 years ago

    I wouldn't use the spell.I'd feel really bad for the rest of my life if I did. If I didn't I'd be crushed and heartbroken cause he didn't like me. But There probably was a reason he didn't want to be with me in the first place...I'd eventually get over him...

  • Court
    19 years ago

    yea i wouldnt want to use a spell...because it just wouldnt be right....

    and in a way it is selfish to do that to someone....

    good answers in my opinion!!! (most of yall) yall are good people!! lol

  • Eibutsina
    19 years ago

    Could I reverse the spell if the guilt got to me too much? :o)

    No I wouldn't, be truly loved is such a wonderful feeling, a choice of free will, I don't think I could live happily knowing that the person I desired and chose to spend my life with didn't love me of his free will.....wouldn't that defeat the purpose of contentment in itself?

  • Court
    19 years ago

    lol i dont think anyone will

  • SammiBABY
    19 years ago

    it depends how desperate and lonely i am!!! LOL

    Sammi