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  • Court
    19 years ago

    i really dont know what to tell you....ive always had my parents trust....so idk....

    ive always been very truthful with my mom....i tell her basically everything that happens in my life....i tell her what my friends are doing and what not....i tell her just basically everything....thats one thing that helped me out.....and then my dad just goes with the flow...he doesnt care....i mean he DOES care what i do...but he knows im not gonna do anything.....i guess i just got lucky with my parents....

    she knows ill tell her if something is up....so that helps....

    umm i really dont know though....

    sorry i wasnt much help

  • Sarah Ann
    19 years ago

    My parents are the same way...I learned to live and deal with it...I once had their trust...but it was all lost one night when I made a very big mistake...I will never forget that moment where my father looked at me like I wasnt his daughter anymore...Now I dont talk to him...I barely have a relationship with my mom either, although I love her alot. Little by little they are letting me do more things...But once you fall into the trap of your parents not trusting you...Hardly ever can you get out. xxx

  • Eibutsina
    19 years ago

    Angelina think is it really you they don't trust or the rest of the world? They are trying to protect you, in thier own way. But at the same time you have very right to live your own life and discover who you are and what you want from life. I know you think they don't trust you but in reallity its everyone else and the way of the world they don't trust. When you have your own kids you'll understand, I know its difficult now but believe me you will :o)

  • Eibutsina
    19 years ago

    Try and take a breather and approach your parents and explain to them about the way you feel, be honest but don't let your emotions get worked up and get the better of you or the situation. If you can sit down and converse with them like an adult, they might start to see you as one. Explain your FEELINGS don't make accusations lay it all down to your feelings of frustration and inadequacy in relation to their trust and your current lifestyle. Remember your feelings can't be wrong or right they are just the way you feel...but if you let your emotions take control then they'll stop listening and put the foot down even more k? I hope my advice helps...feel free to email me and let me know how it goes should you chose to take my advice :o) What have you got to lose (besides your temper lol)??

  • Hayley Marie
    19 years ago

    hey! my parents were like that!! But i spoke to them about it,. I asked them why they didnt trust me, and now they trust me loads.
    Have you spoke to them?!
    I think itd be a good idea.
    Hayley-Ree xxx

  • **Just Her**
    19 years ago

    well of course #1 is talk to them.. if that doesnt work.. earn their trust, such as:
    call them to tell them where you are
    be home by curfew
    dont lie to them

    soon enuff ur parents will realizeyour responisble and will give you more freedom