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  • Atomic
    19 years ago

    What would you do if you were a girl and a guy just casually walks in and saw you without your shirt? Would you:

    A) Become the snitch and report him to the principal so he'll get what he really deserves, meaning he'll get kick out of school. He's "popular" and his friends doesn't tolerate such acts as "snitching" so it's certain that they'll make your life Hell.

    or

    B) Keep your mouth shut tight because you can't handle so much people telling you what to do and calling you a bitch for snitching because he violated your personal space and expected you to keep quiet.

    This happen during physical education today. The sluttish girls really like the guy and thought there was nothing wrong with showing a bit skin. "Stop acting like a baby, you show it everyday!" Someone said this to my friend.

    The other girls thought it was really disrespectful and wants justice serve immediately.

    Oh and a thing about hypocrites.

    Would you tell someone "oh you shouldn't snitch" and etcetera, then go and snitch on your best friend because your grades were jeopardized?

    What would you do if you were faced with these tough decisions?

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  • Lu
    19 years ago

    Atomic !
    Girl this really is a hard one ...Hummm
    Well being a mom if it was my daughter I would want her to tell right away so he would get the punishment he deserves . It is not right to do this to a girl and I expect it hurt her pride and maybe self esteem as well .... It might also might make her very shy around boys or anyone that this boy might tell...
    It was a total evasion of her privacy . Although there are some girls that it would not seem to bother .
    The only thing I would worry about are the teasing afterwards and labeled a snitch . But I really think it might be worth it not to have him do it again to someone else .
    Mind you this is only my opinion but as a mother I would want my child to feel safe and happy in any enviroment . Excellent question Atomic ...really makes you think ..Hope all turns out well !

  • Atomic
    19 years ago

    Luanne thank you for your cooperation. I totally agree with you, but the thing about being teased for being a snitch...

    Well, many adults wouldn't mind because I doubt they would let a few words of an immature teenager or those of their peers affect them.

    But being a teenager means you can very easily get depressed and I fear some don't have the senses to be proactive. In fact they might develope a nasty habit of cutting themselves to relieve emotional pain.

    This girl, we'll just call her "Jasmine" felt that he despected her and her body and she's willing to do everything in her power to make sure he gets what he deserves, but a large percentage of the Sophomore class think it's a small issue and he shouldn't be kicked out of school for that simple reason.

    However, I think if we let this go as if nothing happened, he can or will do it again because he knows he got away with it in the first place and etcetera.

    This is where peer pressure becomes a big problem.

    And Luanne, it's nice to see you active in the threads. =)

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  • Shædow Poet
    19 years ago

    ... well I'd probably laugh, 'cuz that sounds like something many of my guy friends would do as a practical joke. But, I wouldn't report it, nor would I think it was a big deal. Then again, we don't have girls locker rooms. And I go to an all girls school.

  • Cory Mastrandrea
    19 years ago

    I am not a female so I am not sure what I would do in your position, but if that ever happened to my sister im sure she would tell me (if you have a brother or friend like me tell them). After I found out I would go have a friendly conversation with him about what he did. I would tell him if he ever did it again, told anyone about it, or gave my sister shit about it i would see him in the grave. ANyways that is how i would handle it. Peace.

  • Atomic
    19 years ago

    Actually this didn't happend to me, just to one of my close friends.

    We go to a very, very small school that consist of 200 somewhat students.

    The Sophomores are the largest class in the whole school and unfortunately, I'm apart of that class.

    Rumour has it that he had been reported and now he could be suspended or kicked out. We're all hoping for the latter. Well, those who abhor the boy does.

    Okay here's something esle that irks me, my gym teacher was told of the situation but she said she doesn't want to say anything because her job would be jeopardized since she wasn't there in the locker room to begin with. She plan on not opening her mouth. Now how wrong is that?

    Our school doesn't have a gymnasium, so we go to a university nearby to use their gymnasium. This was out third time there and still it confuses the Hell out of all of us.

    So the boy is using that for his excuse. He said he "accidentially" walked in.

    Now how far-fetched is that? I would understand it if he saw and immediately left the room, but no. He took his time walking about the locker room.

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  • Shædow Poet
    19 years ago

    I'm glad someone else shares my opinion... I thought I was being unreasonable before.

  • Atomic
    19 years ago

    People have their opinions, she just don't respect that. Some girls are very self-conscious and to be seen by the one guy she dislike so much really hurts her ego.

    I wouldn't mind showing my bra either, but I would have gotten pissed off too if it was shown in front of the one guy I hate with a flaming passion.

    I don't think it's a bit too extra that she wants him kicked out of the school. Good riddance.

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  • JJ
    19 years ago

    If it was me, I would fight with every power I had to get him suspended. I agree. Kick him out!

  • Anthony
    19 years ago

    Atomic, we are all glad that he got kicked out of school! except those stupid girls who sat in out Italian class and told Mr. V that he walked in the wrong locker room by accident. I mean, how stupid can you get? Any way, no body mentioned that girls were in the boys locker room. My locker was right there!!! Damn you Rutgers!!! That college needs more secuity! Anyway, i have the biggest urge to name drop so i must stop typing. One more thing, A. Martin went in the girls room too and they beleived him when he said he didn't. Thats messed up!

    ~Anthony

  • Anthony
    19 years ago

    Oh, dont forget that the cop pulled our bus over on the way there! Who throws a bottle out the bus window?

    ~Anthony

  • Atomic
    19 years ago

    Apparently *insert name* did. She's an idiot. I also heard that Dunn was the one who was marching around with -him- in the girl's locker's room.

    Martin went in there intentionally, but he didn't walk around.

    He got to the intrance and ran back out. It's a good thing too, or else I might had bitch slap him. Effing pervert!

    JJ it's nice to hear your opinion and I totally agree with you.

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  • †JustAri†
    19 years ago

    Ooooh bitchslapping!

    Do it do it do it do it do it!! :D

    Either that or scratch his peering eyes out. I would cos the other girls would be worrying about how nasty eyeball slush would look trapped under their press on nails.

    And if that doesn't work, stabbing is always an option. ;)

    //Ari\\

  • Anthony
    19 years ago

    Atomic, I don't think Dunn would have done that. I've known her since Kindergarden and she never did anything like that. Unless she's secretly a slut, I doubt it.

    ~Anthony

  • Cory Mastrandrea
    19 years ago

    you girls need to do something like that. My sister would have dragged the guy farther into the girls locker room and raked his face across a wall, and then told me. Most guys won't do anything to you if they know you will do something back to them. Guys really do it beacause they think girls are weak and wont do anything. Make the kid cry a couple times and then you will find out that he wont do anything else to you, and neither will his friends

  • †JustAri†
    19 years ago

    I forgot about the walls.

    Beat his face in a couple of times, but not enough to make it look like hamburger. If you're defending yourself and your dignity it should allowed and excused.

    //Ari\\

  • Atomic
    19 years ago

    HAHAHAHA!

    Ari, I never knew you were so violent!

    As for Cory, I'm a lover, not a fighter. I say much harsh things, but I rarely ever mean it.

    Anthony, all I heard was she was either the one who pushed him in or the one walking about with him. Rumours are just rumours, it's best not to listen to them.

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  • JJ
    19 years ago

    I say, right on Cory! I don't know how to talk harsh but I can throw some punches.

    LOL Ari knows what to do.

  • Atomic
    19 years ago

    Haha, I'd be the one to slap someone then go to them to see if they are alright.

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  • JJ
    19 years ago

    LMAO! HAHA
    That's the last thing on my mind. If he isn't half dead already, I'll fix him up some more.

  • †JustAri†
    19 years ago

    LMAO, i'm naturally a calm, laid-back person, but the second my privacy is screwed around with, i'm willing to fight for my rights as a person, not only a person, but a young female.

    //Ari\\

  • Atomic
    19 years ago

    Right on! *coughs* Feminist *coughs*

    Kidding!

    Please don't hurt me...=)

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  • †JustAri†
    19 years ago

    That did sound feminist, didn't it? O_O

    OH GOD, WHAT THE HELL IS HAPPENING TO ME!!!

    *Just after i typed this, i came upon the thread "All Your Answers"...LMAO

    //Ari\\

  • Cory Mastrandrea
    19 years ago

    thats alright, I am normally a relaxed, half asleep individual, until someone screws with my family. Then I go a little nutty and think of all the ways I can get away with murdering teh person and hiding the body. just kidding.

  • Atomic
    19 years ago

    Or are you?

    The world may never know.

    Dun dun dun!

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  • ScarletHaze
    19 years ago

    neither a or b

    i pick c
    kick the crap out of the asshole! and i dont snitch i jus get even

  • ScarletHaze
    19 years ago

    and whats wrong with feminists?

  • Ele
    19 years ago

    annoy the hell out of him by constantly asking him if he has a secret being that hes secretly a girl which is why he walked in cause he forgot he was trying to hide that