GODD I HATE HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ok as most of you have read in my previous posts there is a boy in my class i like and my friend likes him too though but not as much

Anyways the guy I like knows my friend likes him and today we were walking to class and his friend (my crush's friend) told my friend that he(my crush) wants her to ask him out and she didnt believe him and my other friend doesen't either cause that guy likes to joke around a lot and he finds it funny that my friend likes him

But i did believe it to be true i shouldn't and i dont want to but I do and i feel heartbroken
eventhough nothing happened and I have no idea if its true or not i feel like he likes her now and i was an idiot all along!! :( grr

But my friend asked him on msn if it was true and he said his friend was lying and being a fag and I do not know what to believe, I mean if he did like my friend I don't think he'd just come out and say it..But if he liked me he wouldn't either. Grr

so what if it's a crush. i'm sorry but you can't just force yourself to get over someone. that's just not the way things work. but lightsniper i do agree that she's making way to big a deal about it considering it's not love or anything so beautifuldisaster you do need to chill out a little bit.

hey hun

I know crushes are hard. They're the worst part of jr. high and highschool and they really are hard to get over. All I can tell you is this: You need to tell that boy that you like him. He needs to know how you feel about him and how much you care. Cause you never know, maybe he's thinking the same thing.... that he likes you alot and he's worried you don't like him. And if you tell him and he doesn't feel the same way, then hey, you'll know and you'll be able to move on and find someone else. Trust me babe the right guy will come along sooner or later, whether it be that boy or a different one.

To lightsniper, It isn't just a crush I've had just crushes before but this guy is just different to me and he does know my name we've been in the same class for like 3 years and in the first two years we've talked to eachother freely and stuff when working in groups and stuff but now this year we've not said a word to eachother and we avoid talking to eachother...And I have my reason i mean i like him but wth is his reason?

And today my friend on msn asked if it was true if he wanted my other friend to ask him out and he said his friend was lying and being a complete fag and then my friend told him that my other friend didn;t like him anymore..

it doesn't matter how long you know someone, you can fall in love anytime.

BeautifulD, I trust you have a goal you’d like to achieve with this guy that you like. Just try to stay focused on the goal and how you intend to achieve it. That is all that really matters, nothing else. Even if there was any significance to this incident, just view it as a minor setback. And remember that rarely is any worthwhile goal ever achieved without encountering some setbacks along the way. Stay strong.

With the guy I went after, I saw him get kissed by another girl within 30 minutes after we met. Okay, it was just a friendly peck on the cheek but it still sent a tinge of anxiety through me. I just didn’t let that discourage me at all. And it’s a good thing I didn’t because we have been together now for a year and a half.

Aw Lydia that's so cute,

And lightsniper you do not know how us girls work, watching stupid movies like mean girls is NOT how every girl in life works, were all different so dont tell me you know what I'm feeling and stuff I know what I'm feeling and I don't need you telling me all this BS about how I'm jeleous of my friend why would I be jeleous of her, I'm not jeleous of her it's not my fault i fell for the wrong guy

Okay, from reading many of your posts, I think one your main problems is the fact that you and this guy are always getting friends to talk for you. If you really want to date him, start talking to him, smile at him, anything. Nothing is going to happen if you keep your distance and let your friends do the talking.
I also think that if he really likes your friend, and your friend likes him, maybe you should just let them be. Friends come first always, you don't want to lose her over a crush on some guy.

And Lightsniper is just trying to point some things out to you, he didn't say every girl works the same.