what do you do if you think ur bf is cheating on you, no i dont

yah my friend in is a lil bit of a sistuation and she thinks her bf is goin to cheat on her and she doesnt know how to ask him or find out.. she rele loves him adn she doesnt want it to be true... soo any help???

tell her to be strong and just to ask and get to the bottom of it! that will be for the best!

You know what, my last bf cheated on me. And the only reason I didn't break up with him is because I knew that he was truly sorry, and sincere, and that he was the one who confessed up to it, I didn't have to ask him... And me and him are doing greatly once again :)... It still hurt me much more than I can begin to explain though, and I don't think anyone deserves to feel this. So my only words to her, is to give him the time to confess to things, and if he doesn't - then subtly hint at you knowing about it or thinking that way. If he still doesn't, she's going to have to come right out and ask him straight forward (which will most likely be the one to happen)... And if he hurts her, than you're just going to have to be the one to console her, and tell her that she can do much better. He's not worth any tears if he's willing to hurt her like that and not own up to it... On the other hand, if he really wasn't doing anything in the first place - then she'll have to be the one to apologize for being untrusting, because trust in a relationship is really really important...Anyway, there's alot of possible outcomes to this situation, so if anything weird happens or she (or you) have an questions I'm always here to listen and try to help. Best of luck with everything. See you 'round the site.