advice please

  • silentscream
    19 years ago

    ive moved out of my parents house about a month ago for alot of diff reasons but now they want me back what do i do??

  • silentscream
    19 years ago

    any advice would be great
    thnx

  • Brian King
    19 years ago

    depends you don't give enough info all you say is you left they want you back... we're you insanely sad with them are you happy now?job money place to live. you really need to expand

  • silentscream
    19 years ago

    ok well
    since i was little my parents have treated me well differrent
    being mad at ME
    hitting ME
    not my sisters or brothers
    well this made me very depressed i was also abused when i was younger
    i got into cutting and eating disoreders and things like that
    but my parents and me were still fighting and they still treated me bad even though i was very ill
    we fought so much
    one day it was so bad
    that one day i ran away
    and they found me and made me come back
    and within a few weeks we had had enough they said i leave until im16 then they send me away or i find someone to take me in ori have to stay there and live in a living hell
    i couldnt take living with the screaming and yelling and hitting anymore so i left

  • silentscream
    19 years ago

    then they wanted me to come home and now we got into another fight because they were saying really rude things about me and i told them how i felt and now they are all mad at me
    what should i do

  • ?
    19 years ago

    don't move back.

  • silentscream
    19 years ago

    should i try to have a relationship or just move on with m life

  • silentscream
    19 years ago

    please help me

  • silentscream
    19 years ago

    thanx

  • silentscream
    19 years ago

    if they start talking to me what should i do??

  • Alex Marlatt
    19 years ago

    personally my family sucks to, but you can't just go back to that shit, maybe eventually they will realise how shitty their treatment was and try to make it up to you, but they won't realise that unless you leave for a long time or something like that happens

  • silentscream
    19 years ago

    im living with my friend and i want her parents to get gurdenship of me or custudy or something so that they cant come pull me out at any given moment.
    please give me any advice that you have.
    thanx
    caris

  • silentscream
    19 years ago

    please help me out

  • ღ*KiM*ღ
    19 years ago

    First of all you need to sop bumping up your post by pleading for help. You need to sort out your own life, not get a bunch of people over the internet to run it for you. Secondly, your friends parents won't get custody, partly becuase your parents would fight as much as they can and probably would win, and secondly they probably don't want you there all the time, you are not their daughter. Watch the film 13.

  • Sherry Lynn
    19 years ago

    Silent: There is no need to attack Kim in that manner. When you post asking for help then you are opening yourself up for the opinions of others. Whether or not you like their advice you were the one to ask for it.

    If someone gives you advice that you do not agree with it is best to say thank you anyways and not to resort to name calling.

    --Sher

  • ღ*KiM*ღ
    19 years ago

    silentscream:
    I know what i'm talking about. Just because it isn't the answer you want doesn't mean I don't know what im talking about! They are likely to feel awkward having you around because you're no their family and they have to be on the recieving end of your problems!
    There was no need to call me names, I offered my opinion, which I thought showed I knew what I was talking about, and you just threw it back at me because it wasn't what you wanted to hear. Ok ill give you the answer you want to hear :

    It'll all be ok hun, your friends parents will take you into custody I know because you're a great person and im sure they love you like their own daughter. It's ok, you can just run away fom your family and your problems and it will all be fine.

    There. Is that what you wanted to hear?

    Oh and your profile says your twenty - get your own house/flat and a job. If that's true.

  • Farren
    19 years ago

    Kim is right...If you are twenty then how the hell somebody gonna have guardianship of you??? They are NOT!!! I know I been in the court system since I was 4. A lady had guardianship of me...when I turned 18 it was totally taken away from her. If you are 20 you should have a roommate or something and a job. Not living off of other people!!

  • Farren
    19 years ago

    And also you only get one family...try to make it work. I know bout that too cuz my family disowned me. I miss them just being there.

  • ღ*KiM*ღ
    19 years ago

    Farren - thanks for backing me up, doesn't happen a lot round here! But anyway, I think all you posted is totally true and the original poster needs to accept the truth.