In need Please Help :)

  • Xox P.a.U.L.i.n.A xoX
    19 years ago

    Hey every one... :(
    My boyfriend broke up with me because he thought I was gna break up with him first...
    I used to live in Virginia just 2 weeks ago...
    I got tranfered to New York because I got caught running away to him in California...
    I really Loved him and gave him everything i had... I risked losing my friends, family and my parent's money just to go to him....
    Now I feel so all alone bcause I'm in like a probation...
    And Just because of my boyfriend...
    After all that he broke up with me... Please help... :(

  • Void
    19 years ago

    Well sweety, I know what it's like to risk it all, and to lose it all. And I can only imagine what you're feeling right now. Unfortunately though, I don't have much advice for you, because I took the lazy route.lol. I just sat there and waited for time to pass until things got better. That's just it though, sometimes I regret not doing anything for myself, because I could be in a much different place right now. What I'm about to say is alot easier said than done, but I think that if you give it your all, something should go for you.
    To put it nicely, your bf seems a little bit of a poo head lol. I'm sure he's much better than what his last action made him seem... Does he know what you risked for him? Does he know how you are right now? Because if he did I'm sure he wouldn't have broken up with you...and if he does, and he still broke up with you, then hun you gotta move on. You need to find something/someone else. And looking and experiencing is the only way to do that. (I know I'm not being very specific, but It really depends on what you feel in your heart and what you think in your head. )

    Anywho, I guess I just came here to make sure that you were ok, and holding up? And to say, if you really want him back, the only thing left to do is talk to him.Especially if he doesn't know what's going on with you right now. Communication is everything.

  • Xox P.a.U.L.i.n.A xoX
    19 years ago

    Thanks alot :) ur right if he really knew in wut state im in right now he'd support me... :)