my father

yesterday my dad called, he lives in pa and i live in mn, no big deal right? well i'm bi and he doesn't know...he doesn't know alot of things about me. well on my myspace pro i have alot of rainbows and stuff on it and it even says i'm bi at least twice. well he saw it, that wasn't he main reason he called though, and he asked about it. "what's with the rainbows? are you gay?" i freaked and chickened out in telling him so i just told him i liked rainbows. i'm scared...i don't want him to know...not yet...not ever! what should i do? my stepbro who lives with him knows but i know he hasn't told my dad and honestlly i dont' know how my dad would reaact if he knew...any adice?

okay. i think this problem is a little too big for any one person to solve. you should talk to your dad. I still have a big secret to tell my dad too, so I know how you feel. my secret is that i was molested when i was little. i think my problem would still be easier to tell. good luck!

Bob's Poem Speaks Loudly....Sweety Honesty Is The Best Policy, Your Dad Will Find Out One Way Or The Other, It Might As Well Be From Your Mouth...I Think He Would Be More Dissapointed In You Not Telling Him Yourself Then The News....Although I'm Not Bisexual, If I Were I'd Let My Famliy Know First, He Deserves To Know Hun...Hes Your Dad xoxo-Nikki-xoxo

I agree lying and creating a fake life takes so much valuable energy that could be better used else where. Dont be ashamed of who you are, you Dad may be shocked at first but the worst thing would be him never knowing the real you - maybe he'll suprise you and be open minded, if not he'll always be your father and you guys can work through it in time - Good Luck :O)

thanks for the advice...i'll keep it in mind. i hate lying to him but i feel as if that he doesn't live with me so he doesn't have to know but he does...he's my father he has a right to know what's going on with my life.

I'm Glad Your Considering Our Advice Hun *Hugs* I'll Keep You In My Prayers xoxo-Nikki-xoxo

sure and by the way bob i liked your poem...it was pretty good and i guess i can relate...lol.