he loves me, i love him.........should i let him go??

It sounds like you are really being too hard on yourself for the guilt you feel over what happened. I think you should just accept his forgiveness and re-kindle the flames of your passion. Sometimes clouds like this have a silver lining that can work to strengthen a relationship after the storm clears.
Best wishes ---Lydia

oh. i thought you were 13 or something. My bad. =P

Anyways...what advice can i give? hmm....well as Goldenknight has said, follow your heart not your mind (i lack originality! hehe ) but sometimes it can be hard knowing what your heart wants and what your mind whats. that is my opinion anyway

hey,
when i read ure post i felt like u stole the words right out of my mouth and typed it out.im going thru the exact same thing.we went out 4 quite sometime but then broke it off coz it seemed all i did was hurt him..no matter how hard i tried not to. he still loves me and i love him too,but im just too scared that i might hurt him again or things wont work out.its all a big huge mess.im sorry i dont think i helped u at all but i guess im in the same spot as u are and i dont know what to do myself...

ohh and i forgot to mention that i thought about the fling thing as well...i guess its an obvious thing to think about after a break up....

hey well i have 2 agree with goldenknight do what your heart tells u 2 do. and hopefully it will work out. g2g luv heather

i read all the posts here and tried to follow my heart...but it dint work...its just so crazy...i thought we could be friends and start over and so then maybe we wouldnt get hurt anymore but he doesnt agree....i tried to talk but it just ended up in a huge fight....thanks anyways but i think my situation is just hopeless...i wish u get through...best of luck!!

hey!!! guess what?????
i spoke to him again right after i posted the previous post and its all okay now!! it worked....
i dunno what else to say im just happy!!
hope things work out for u as well.... thanks a million :-)