Thoughts on Love

I guess nice guys really do finish last. So why dont i just quit the race?

My fiancee was the same way. Every girlfriend he had before me cheated on him. He was never with the most attractive people in the world, and even when I first met him I thought he was really dorky and goofy looking. He was NOT the type of guy I pictured myself madly in love and engaged to. That's for sure.

My point...the nice guys might finish last...but why give up? Once you finish the race...you find the person of your dreams, fall madly in love, and have a great life together. It's the nice guys that finish last that end up the happiest...as long as you don't give up.

You're still young....live it up...be happy....you'll find her. You just have to open your heart and let her...come to you!!!

because you may loose from time to time but eventually youll find someone that was deffinitly worth waiting for!! :)

maybe they don't always finish last...

I agree with the last post
they don't always finish last

Yeah umm...in a nutshell...that was what I was going for.

I talk a LOT when I'm tired though. Sorry about that.

Haha. Wow.

I don't know if I'm 'right', but here's my thoughts on the subject:

I can relate to this. Even though I'm a girl and I'm nice I never get noticed by guys. My friends may tell me that so-and-so may think I'm pretty or like me, but no one ever tries to do anything about it. Maybe it's because people just admire you from afar because you are a nice guy, and (generally speaking) there aren't a lot of nice guys out there who are actually respectful to girls. A lot of girls may think that they don't deserve you, or that they are just looking for that momentary high of a new "love" but are scared of the actual real love and respect that they may get from you, the nice guy. I wouldn't give up. Let's face it, no guys are interested in me, but I know that someday when I'm least expecting it that Somebody will come along and actually have the guts to reach out. The same thing may be for you as well with your Someone. Or maybe you're the one that needs to reach out. Reaching out doesn't necessarily mean that you're gonna be the mean, or fast, one. Girls will eventually recognize and appreciate you for who you are. Know what I'm trying to say?

Save the best for last...

dont worry it seems as tho nice girls finish last to.....but not always tho...iunno...?

Mhmm.. I got told that people that aren't in very many relationships at a young age get the better stuff later on. Hm, That didn't make sense.

^ hmm, agreed.

The reason being, is that if you date too many people too often, you tend to have bad choices, and you never really know what the TRUE meaning of dating is. The people who date less often, can find that meaning.

Wow. I totally agree with that, Darien.

And Taleee as well :)

Agreed!

That's cause girls aren't mature at a young age. When they grow up, a nice guy is what they want.

haha that's so true. Never thought of it like that before, Kara :)

You will finish before you start if you never begin.