Help me im so depressed i weight 65kg and get teased everyday!!

You weigh only 130 pounds which is just right for a 13 year old. I have mentioned this already before but my daughter is 12 and weighs 137 pounds. She has somewhat bigger bones but looks just beautiful. No need to loose weight. Do some excercise and eat healthy!

dont worry about what people thhink of you. people often only tease others to make themselves feel secure Think about the positives in your life dont dwell on the negtives. . .Love and Smiles Ally

What other people think shouldn't matter. If people can't accept you for who you are, they aren't worth thinking about. Guys at that age can be jerks. Some never change and others mature as they get older. Don't let the fact that they need to be jerks to feel good about themselves bring you down. Things will change as you get older, trust me.

What people think about you shouldn't matter... but of course it usually does. Just exercise and eat healthy, becuase as long as you're happy with yourself. So if the teasing really bothers you like I said eat healthy & exercise.

i am 18 and I weigh 6 and a half stone, but then I am only 4 foot 11. i am tiny and i used to get picked on, but dont let it matter, because you cant help who you are and you should be proud of who you are.

people always find something to tease you about.. i used to get teased for being too skinny, a friend of mine used to get teased for being too big.. i wanted to be like her and she wanted to be like me.. you are probably just right the way you are and the people teasing you are jealous of you ;) x

When you put yourself out there, when you dare to s p e a k your mind, there's always going to be that danger of having it all come back in your face. You can't please everybody. choose your battles. ignore ignorance. ignore those who cannot be convinced, who take no interest in wanting to understand. only those rare people willing to listen, not necessarily agree, are worth your time.

don't worry about being lonely. everyone's lonely. even the so-called popular people. appreciate what you have. because all you could ever want or be is all you ever had and are.

girls and being weight conscience... why is it always like that..? does it even matter what others say? are they your friends? no. forget them, let them talk. in the end it won't do you any good/bad. shouldn't affect you...

Peer pressure has lots to do with it. Also, look in magazines...it is always skinny people you see right?? Anyway, I tell my daughter all the time how beautiful she looks.

weight is just a silly number. A silly number that does not at all say what you look like. Don't get blinded by that 65!! That doesn't mean anything! I'm pretty sure that you're worrying about nothing. Peeps tease other peeps these days for really, nothing. Believe me, I've been teased for two years because I said 'multifunctional' which my classmates only knew as a 'difficult' word. This is three years ago, when I was twelve. Sad, isn't it? don't let them get you down. You'll notice in some time that they'll try to make it up with you. And You'll come out if all this as the stronger (totally NOT fat) girl you are!!
don't let your head hang low. plz?

x

pffft* u aint fat, stop complaining

if you think you get teased im 14 and 197 lbs. im bigger boned so yea.. but its life i guess..

"You wouldn't care so much about what people thought of you, if you knew how seldom they did."

And when they make comments about your weight, ignore them. It's not worth getting upset over.

65kg is actually closer to 145 pounds. Not 130.

But anyway, don't take what other people say to heart. If you do that, they'll know, and carry on. The only person's opinion that should ever matter to you is your own. Remember that.

And besides. Kids are plain cruel. They can always find something new and mean to say - and most of the time it's all a load of rubbish.

I'm 5'3" and weigh like 104pnds. If I took what people said to me serously I'd have some real issues. I know I'm skinny, I'd actually prefer gaining wait to loosing it, but people still tease me by calling me fat.

Don't pay to teasing, focus on being fit and healthy, not looking like the falsely presented modles in magizines.

None of the anorexic girls i know have gotten attention from guys, if that's what this is about. Half of the guys at my school said they like girls with curves. They said they don't want someone who is obese, but if you're a good size, that's what counts. Everyone mocks someone for a different reason. Either you're too fat, too skinny, and even if you're a good weight, they find something to mock you about. It's just the way the world is.

some people are stupid.. throw rocks at them:D

lol

Hum..I weigh 55 kilos and I'm..about 5'3+, sometimes I think I'm fat, then I think I'm too thin, then I'm back to staring at my backside in the mirror and screaming "go away, go away" at it inside my mind.
Mostly I just calm down and take a few steps back, making sure that I see myself as myself, and not through the eyes of stick-thin girls and their comments.

I think that if you are healthy and happy, you are fine.

Phew, it took me a while to work that out, but when it comes to body-image, it is the only truth that I have discovered so far.

//T.L.//

hei i also weight 55 kilos..or 56..hehe..i aien't got problem with that..well ya sometimes i do ..but mostly i'm proud of ma weight..for i'm strong..ma big sis i thin..and she's not that strong..haha..

i'm glad of me..
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and you if they tease you..i mean the thin ppls..tell them that fatty are more stronger thand thiny..haha.....

if any one tease me of ma weight..i'm sure i'll get angry..but if i'm mad..i'll go and giv them a lesson or leacture them..haha like..

ma leacture---

wat's so funny?..co'z i'm fat?..well tell you a thing..go and look at your family photo..your grandpa /grandma or any one on ur family tree..even some of them are fat..it's normal being fat..i'd rather chose to be fat than thin..for skinny ppls like you have no stringth like we fat ppls do..do you?..

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watcha' laughing at?..neva seen a fatty person before or wat?..well look at you poor thing..didn't your paren't giv you lot's to eat?..oo..look at you i can even see your bones..eeww..

aren't i lucky i can get to eat as much as i want..you poor thing must be starving..want some balbalbal..dadadede..
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se it's easy..:D...
well at lest i'm exprienced at this stuffs...hehe

people need to stop teasing people because you know what, everyone has something they could be teased about.
that pisses me off.
im fat, i dont care, im losing the weight because i dont like it, its not that hard if you really set your mind to it plus sometimes, but only sometimes, i think im beautiful the way i am.
and when you accept yourself then it doesnt matter what other people think.
145 lbs is not even close to fat either.

i had a back problem and got lazy and fat, i stayed like that for 2 years! i got up one day and said "thats enough" so i went to the gym and ate healthy. dont let others put you down, TRUE beauty comes from within, always remember that :]

For starters 65KG is NOT i repeat NOT fat!! I am heavier than you!! The people who are teasing you are just very very insecure and are just a**holes! do not worry about them, they need help

All I can say is screw the world that think being fat/ or slightly overwieght are stupid people.. everyone looks fine the way they are. Maybe some need to loose weight but why make fun of them? Put yourself in their shoes before you judge.

It's actually natural to gain some weight early into your teen years. When i was 13, i weighed 138lbs and was 5'. I'm now 5'2" and weigh 102lbs. Girls have the greatest chance of gaining weight while going through puberty. All you need to do is eat healthy, and be active. Junk food is something many people crave, and eating ice cream, or chocolate once and a while isn't bad, but eating a whole bunch won't do your body any good. I've always believed that what other people think of you shouldn't matter. It's how you feel about yourself.