NOT GONNA TAKE IT

  • *~*neVa_giVe_iN_*~*
    18 years ago

    hey im bein teased and im not gonna take it any more * GIRL POWER *

    can i have some advice how 2 cope

  • ღ*KiM*ღ
    18 years ago

    Surely if you have decided you're "Not gunna take it anymore", you know "how to cope".

    Angelina, there's not need to ask to explain, i'm sure it's "behind_these_brown_eyes" Or whoever - The girl who kept posting pointless posts on the discussion boards.

  • Kevin
    18 years ago

    I heard a nice proverb today which I feel is relevant.

    "If you run away from your fears for too long, when they finally catch up to you, you will be too tired to face them"

  • Purple
    18 years ago

    Point out that what ever their insult is also aplies to them and a lot of other people.

    "Man, you're ugly."
    "You ain't so pritty yourself, look at your nose! It's soo small, how can you beath through it?" (Everyone has some feature you can make sound bad)

    "You're stupid."
    "We're all stupid some time, I bet you've walked into a door before."

    "Wow, you really really suck at this."
    "At least I try new things, are you any good at underwater basket weaving?"

    Serously though, underwater basket weaving is HARD.

  • Brian King
    18 years ago

    i would just confront the person/people, the next time they say something walk up close ask if they've got something to say when they say whatever punch them in the head

  • *~*neVa_giVe_iN_*~*
    18 years ago

    thanx 4 your gd comments the top people i dont want to listen 2 you guys being mean ok ..

    just leave me alone

  • ღ*KiM*ღ
    18 years ago

    This is life. People are going to be "mean". Besides, I brought up a point that I felt relevant.

  • *~*neVa_giVe_iN_*~*
    18 years ago

    i want to stay strong kim but i was wanting some moral sapport and your alyways mean to me so GO AWAY when u look up the top to see who the post is by and its me say shes not worth my time cause i dont want to hear from you

  • Krissey
    18 years ago

    ^ Speak it girl!

    Kim- THats just the kind of person she was talking about. I mean dang shes 13 so what if her posts are pointless...she's just wanting a support system just like any other young teenager would in a situation like this. Man..do I miss the days where the people of PnQ used to offer help whether the original post was pointless or not. Whether she can explain herself well or not, its obvious shes having a hard time with this. I'm not trying to be rude or anything to you Kim, as a person I have respect for you, but you have to understand teenagers...especially those young teenagers, we don't know how to explain ourselves or speak complete sentences and sentences that make sense. I just don't think what you said needed to be said about the "pointless posts"....shes just trying to be social with everyone and get some help

    To the original poster..for those bullies...you can either ignore it or stand up for yourself...it'll only get worse if you let it bother you so speak up and really tell them and not us that you won't take it anymore. If its in school tell an older person or see your counciler ...get em in trouble! haha who cares if that makes you a tattle tale! Hope things work out hun, just know that rumors will start about you whenever they feel like starting...shoot me for example, I got tons a friends and I'd never expect rumors to start and people to talk about me, pssshhh they do...you just have to move on and when you blow them off, eventually they should stop!

    BTW my name is Chelsey if you still need to talk about it..I'm just under a collab account right now! :-\...I know I'm an idiot...who forgets they are under the wrong account?! ME haha

  • ღ*KiM*ღ
    18 years ago

    I do understand teenagers- i am one for goodness sake. But I do have a right to speak my opinion and that is what I shall do. If my opinion is "mean" then so be it. I miss the days when P&Q wasn't full of petty problems.

    Ok then, I'll "Go away and leave you alone". I just hope that when I do have advice to give you ever that you don't want it, even though it may be helpful.

  • Purple
    18 years ago

    I do think that she could of clean up her post at least a little, but if I snapped at people everytime I saw some thing like that... :/ When I start to rant about some thing, I'm a lot worse than Kim.

    Paying attentoin in English class won't help, but USING what you learn in English class will. :). Orginal poster, note that this IS a litacy website, and so it would indeed make sense to follow the rules of spelling and grammar the best you can. I've been chatting online sense I was 8, and my spelling and grammar has only gotten better and I don't remember ever falling to the horrible "2" instead of "to" net speak.

    ... Although I do enjoy leet speak, that's always fun.

    I've already made a post to help you, so note that I'm not just being mean and agreeing with Kim for no reason... To me it seems sort of pointless to attack one person for a lousy post when there are thousands more out there I'll never see... Oh well, I guess attacking one leaves a ding in the world, and a ding's better than nothing.

    Expect peole to be mean even when you ask for help, keep your guard up and try not to show it's bothering you.

  • Jackie Prahl
    18 years ago

    unless its someone that really really matters ignore it and people get annoyed that they are not having a affect on you they give up.

  • Taco
    18 years ago

    haha im in english class right now hahaha
    that twisted sister song were not gonna take it came up in my head when i saw this thinger hahaha

  • The Angel of Secrets
    18 years ago

    Stand up for yourself, its as simple as that.

  • Lovely Bones
    18 years ago

    Neva Give In: I honestly know how you feel. When I was 13 I was teased NON-STOP. I finally broke down. I told my mom what was happening, she went to my principal and my principal talked to those people who were teasing me. he also made me be there to tell them to stop.. It was so embarrasing! I still got a rude comment every nwo and then, but everyone does. But the teasing ceased and I don't get teased so much to this day. Everyone gets teased once n a while. As much as that day was emabarrasing and I thought I'd never live it down, I'm 16 and it seems like a century ago since it happened. I don't think anybody remembers either. And the best part is, that you're not alone. I wouldn't dream of doing what i did. But before that one girl in my class di the exact same thing, so that gave me courage that I wasn't alone. Someone else in your class could be going through the exact same thing but doesn't have the courage to ask for help. You could set an example for her and for other people. :)

  • Kirsty palmer
    18 years ago

    People who tease are just bored with their own life.. tell them this .. and just ignor them.. they will soon get bored.. good luck hun xx

  • xxmichaelxx
    18 years ago

    who's teasing you? tell me their names and i'll kick their @$$!!!!!! lol

  • *~*neVa_giVe_iN_*~*
    18 years ago

    lol people thanks for all that u guys have said
    it makes me feel happy to come on here and not be judged and no body else is realli going through what i am its actally alot of things happinin 2 me and on my sience table it says my name = fat sl*t and all my friend think im so pritty and wish they were like me but i just dont see it in myself. I never though that high school and primary school would basiclly kill me i have so many scars * inside * and im just falling to pieces

    * note to all the people complaining bout my post* .. im sorry if you hate my post but these are things im going through and what i think bout im turning to this place cause nobody else understands is that a crime...??

  • *~*neVa_giVe_iN_*~*
    18 years ago

    BTW - can u guys cheak out mi piczo site ??

    www.behind-these-brown-eyes-4eva.piczo.com

  • Lovely Bones
    18 years ago

    Aww.. You're really pretty! And honestly I'm not just saying that. The teasing will subside eventually, just hang in there. I understand, I really do. I went through the exact same thing only I never had anybody to talk to.

  • *~*neVa_giVe_iN_*~*
    18 years ago

    hey lovley bones can u send me an email cause mayb u can help me through cause uve been through it

    thanx

    and i aint that pritty i feel ugly and fat !!