how can i forget the past....?

i really dont how can i forget the past....pls tell me how it too hard for me

Focus on the future.

You can never escape your past. I have been trying to do that for 3 years now. Just live today for today and tomorrow, not yesterday. The longer you dwell in the past, the further behind in life you will become.

Or you could just take your clothes off and dance to techno music... it works for me... Until my dad comes in and finally realizes what i'm doing... haha... than asking if he can join me. O.o lol kidding.

i agree to u lush fcuk i cant escape my past... even how many years past is past so it never forget unless ur too much old and it have memory gap hehehe

your past is a part of your life...
..just like cutters, the scars on their arms are there past-a victory won if they have stopped cutting. the scars wont completely go away but they will fade.

another words, your past wont completely go away but it will get easier on your heart-easier to live with.

all the bad stuff that happened to me in my past im greatful for-as it has made me a strong woman, sometimes i will ask myself why did it have to happen to me but then i just think i obviously had to be put throught the pain and heartache for some reason, like a special plan in my life waiting for me to complete it.....

hmmm-even i kinda went off track, im too tired but hopefully you kinda get what i mean..

october xx

keep your eyes set on where you want to go... not where you don't wanna be.

though i have to warn you... you'll never forget and the only way to really end the pain is to find someone else......

good luck!!hope it helps!!

Just focus on the future!

foucs on something else than :

the memories of you two!!..

you can never forget the past... you have to accept it and let it go (move on)... thats not always easy, but that's the only way to find someone new. (my opinion, of course)
-xXx-

Hm.... I dunno I'm kinda in that problem too?

Don't focus on the future because if you're not OKAY, what future? You need to climb the ladder one step at a time, otherwise you might fall. You need to understand what happened. Get familiar with the facts and come to a reasonable conclusion.

I broke up with my fiance on New Years (2006)...I had so many different thoughts in my head, I couldn't believe what was happening...I thought to myself...how will I ever understand what happened alone??? Since he was nowhere around to explain why he did what he did. Well, it's possible to have peace with yourself and move on...And yes it takes time...

The only way to resolve a problem is to face it, suck it up and deal with it...Is it hard? Of course! There will be so many problems that you come across that will seem impossible, but it's impossible only when you make it to be...

^ I agree that nobody can forget the past. It's something that is always going to remain in your heart or mind. You should look at the good things in life. Focus on the great things to come. The future is actually something everyone should think about once and a while. It's good to set goals for where you want to be in your life 10 or 20 years from now. You're 21, you have so much ahead to think about. The past is the past. That's what you need to remember. Everybody has something they regret doing.

yah i agree coz past is past and its part of our life so we never forget it

Can't, it's part of you.
Reflect upon it, learn from it, and move on.

Kalika