Should you get back w/ an ex! please help

My ex-bf wants to get bak together but im not sure. He is a good guy...he was my first love and he is the one I gave my virginity up to. But he also has a really bad temper and he gets jealous to easy. I just don't know if I want that in my life again or maybe he has changed.

please help!!!

me and my ex had a rough time... then he treated me like shit and i broke up with him.. he ignored me for a month then we wer ok for anotha 2 then he begged me back after 3 months on...
at first i said no but then i though yeah!
so anyway! me and my ex got back together and had the most wonderful 3 months...
now hes my ex again...
because it didnt work
i wasnt wat he wanted
and we both knew that before we started :s
you gota make a choice...
learn from your mistakes...
follow your heart...
and if it all ends bad...
then at least youve learnt a valuble lesson!
honestly thou..
even though it may be hard..
maybe you both need to move on...

If you don't know whether he's changed or not, then you need to be good friends with him first, in a group of friends. If you're still having doubts about it, then don't do it. Move on.

Probably not - or did you forget why it ended in the first place?

Move onto to bigger and better things - a change is as good as a holiday :)

ex's r pains in the neck, head, heart, as$ and so many other areas...

An ex is and ex for a reason. Why get involved with them again? It is most likely going to end again.

There are people who will be blind to love, some will deny themselves of love. Love is compromise, love is giving as well as taking. If he has a trait/character that you really can't settle for, then either he should be willing to compromise and change, or he's not right for you. Anyone who truly loves another, will compromise and they will tryt o listen and understand. No one is perfectly made for another, no such thing. You just need to know what you want, what you dont want, what you like and what you dislike and find someone who's able to provide that. There has to be compromise, because there is no perfect person for anyone...

for me it depends upon the situation...

you g0tta l3t him kno the only way you'll get bak wit him is if things arent the same as they once were...he cant jus b mad at you fa jus talkin to a dude that you kno...thats jus crazii and no one needs that..so start talkin to him as a friend and let him kno how you feel start ova and jus make sure to let him kno he cant treat the way he used to or there will NEVER b another chance fa him and you

uhhh very bad idea ur just gonna get hurt move on u dont need him thers some one waiting 4 u out there and its not HIM

Sorry, but I had to laugh at this one.

That's like using the same condom twice.

Fine... here's some advice.

Move on, not Go back.

if it didn't work the first time, who says it won't work the next? play the three strike rule. its like baseball, three strikes and your out.

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Oh my flipping god
i am going through the exact same thing
except the virginity thing
my ex named gene
he is my first love we went out twice all together last montyh his dad made us break up
he wants to get back together he has a bad temper and he says he still loves me but what is love all i gotta say is this is what my friend told me
you can't change someone unless they want to
do you know if he evn knows he has a bad temper
i say put him on probation go out but say he has to keep it cool

i dont think you should cause it could go back to the way it use to be and everything

i got back together with my ex and things for me couldnt be better

I have got back with my ex things didnt work out but the feelings are still there but if you think you can make it work then go for it.
but just be sure that its the right thing for you to do, maybe just date at first to make sure that he has changed for the better.