Is my mom saying too much or am i paranoid???....Help please

  • MischieviousMya
    18 years ago

    So heres the deal me and my mom are closer than ever before. sad to say having her husband (my stepdad) locked up has brought us close and we share a really strong bond. However i think it may be too close because i feel like she tells my stepdad EVERYTHING. first kiss, my crush, my cylce dates, and so on....... i think you get the point lol. I took a picture with him and he didnt want to hug in the pic or stand close like were somewhat related. my mom knows im not a touchy feely person idk why though. so i feel like he knows thats why the picture felt awkward.

    so my question is---Is my mom saying too much or am i paranoid???.... please i would love any bit of advice =]]

  • Polly
    18 years ago

    I would love to help but I'm kind of confuddled... I think if she is in love with the guy (your stepdad?) then she would want to tell him a lot about her daughter, so he wouldn't feel awkward around you, you know? And get to know you a bit better - I think probably her intentions were good. You said you and your mum are closer than ever... so I think your best bet would be to talk about this to her, I'm sure she could understand if you explained. I'm very sorry I can't help very much as I don't know much about the situation. If you would like to emai me feel free I would try to help more!

  • Jaime
    18 years ago

    I think you should talk to her. Just be sure to point out when you are telling her something that you want to be confidential. If she's as close to you as you say she is, than she should understand.

  • MischieviousMya
    18 years ago

    thanx everyone!! =]