ADVICE NEEDED DESPERATELY

Okay, So my situation is pretty complicated && sticky...

Its about his guy.. my ex.

I really liked him but his nest freind told me he liked this other girl.

We went out like two years ago for 2 days. and then he dumped because he said one of his freinds told him he likes her. I felt awfull!

Then it turned out she didnt like im so he had the nerver to go running back to me. I was so stupid that all my freinds were talling me to say no to him so I did. Even though I still liked him. Which I really regret.

Then later this guy asks me out. He was nice and all but wasn't my type. I decided to give him a shot though since I would want someone to give me a shot too. Then I started to realize I didn't like the guy like that. But I also realized my ex found out and was getting really jealous about it. So I stayed with the guy for a month.

Later on the day I broke up with him and Im from my ex comes up saying that he really needed to talk to me. But I wasn't by the comp. at the time and he left when I got bak.

When I asked him what it was on a note. He wrote that he was just sorry and wanted to be freinds again. So I agreed.

Then one of my freinds is now going out with him. And its been awhile and he asked her out.

I can't move on. && She's been acting eird around me and asked me about my past relationship with my ex. Which is weird since she didn't know we went out. Then I told her.

Now she's been acting normal again, but at some moments she'll try to avoid the topic of him whenever someone else brings it up && IO'm around.

Myfreinds say he probably still has a little crush on me and she caught him looking at me and started to wonder.

What should I doooo? Do you think he still has a crush on me or has he moved on? Do you think theres more to the story?

PLEASEEE HELLPPP!

Well, sometimes you can tell by the way he stares at you, but I'm not there to see him so I guess I can't help you with that.
Sometimes it might not be a crush either, he may just stare at you because you were a part of his life and he can't let that go

on the other hand, if he's going out with one of your closer friends, he may just be trying to get to you (bad to say, i know)
he may stare at you to see if your staring at him, cus he wants to catch your eye

I think he still has a little crush on you. Sometimes when you let someone go too soon, you end up regretting it because you still have feelings for that person. I'll bet that's how he feels.

i think theres more to the story...just wait a little while before you jump back in because its hard to tell what hes really thinking

Thank youuuu !!

"Do you think theres more to the story?"

I don't think there's that much to the story at all; I think you may be looking at this too hard. Whether he has a crush on you or doesn't, it's not really any of your business right now. Well it is I guess, but what I mean is that nothing can come of it if he's dating someone else.

You need to let him go. You dated him for TWO DAYS, that's all! It's not like you have much of a history with him. Not to mention it was two years ago.

You're only hurting yourself. In my opinion, you should just suck it up right now, and get over it before you get your friend hurt. There isn't that much to get over, and you'll feel better if you just do it.

i think since it didn't last that long that he probably did move on a long time ago and you should too. and stop trying to make your exes jealous. it's mean.

You`re looking into this too hard .
Two years ago ? And it lasted only TWO DAYS ?
Sweetie, you have to move on . He probably did move on way long ago, and it just checking if it`s okay that he`s goign out with yur good friend . And trying to make your exes jealous by doing that is mean . Trust me . ANd him being jealous that you` was going out with someone other guy, doesn`t mean he likes you . He could just miss having you as his . But if you really really really like him, go to him . Confront him and tell him how you feel . Ask him how he feels and demand the honest truth . See what happens .
..__MiNDYY

I say just keep living life an try not to worry about it. If he pursues you again, then it's up to you what you want to do. Don't try to look at this too hard, because things might end up getting wierd and complicated between you guys and your friends.

I was so stupid that all my freinds were talling me to say no to him so I did. Even though I still liked him. Which I really regret.

You regret going back with him just so you'll be his rebound? If anything's stupid, it's you thinking that.

So I stayed with the guy for a month.

That's just mean, if you try to convince him you like him an extra month just to proceed to make your ex jealous.

I think you should give up on him, that he's dating people whilst he still apparently likes you, and it seems like you just want somebody to like you.