Why is it so hard to be happy?

i was happy then something just changed i fell out of love wiv my bf wanted someone new now im not happy, i hate feelin like this it sucks i feel as ive done something wrong i just wanna be happy

sucks

XxX

im not a happy person!! but give it time and you will aventually find happiness again

some men sorta do that to women

as bslocum said only SOME men do this .... all i can say is nothing lasts forever keep urself busy and youl be ok try to flirt not to think of ur bf

It's hard to be happy 'coz you get up in the morning thinging how miserable the day is going to be without giving it a chance. Try getting up tomorrow thinking that it is going to be a good day and see the difference it makes.

"and u cant expect to be happy when ur not with your bf anymore"

That is one of the stupidest things I have ever heard. You can't rely on men, or anyone else for that matter to make you happy, only YOU are responisble for your happiness. To the original poster, if you are not happy with your boyfriend, get out of the relationship, find someone who you can be happy with, but remember, you can't rely on that person.

--steph

Its hard too be happy because

Reality is the only obstacle to happiness

:P ...

r u in ur teens?

A regular teen girl's values:
Guys, friends, and school

~~

Guys take up most of it. Guaranteed.

I get upset over my one friend... but it's not something to hurt urself over; just distract urself with other things, such as school or hobbies. make them positive things, too. then you get something done.

hey girl yea i know its hard to loose some one you really like but sometimes its not worth it. you just got to stop feeling sorry for your self because taht wont change nothing just keep your head up. thats what i have to do!

heya . it does hurt to loose someone or something. but in the end we move on. we may still hurt deep inside but we find ways to ignore it or fix it. stay strong and remember us p&q ppl are like family, we'll listen adn help all that we can.
love willow

'Why is it so hard to be happy?'

the bad stuff is easier to believe in than the good.

october xx

its all about time.... everyone has their happy and sad times..... life is not all about being happy and laughing.

And when we say life teaches u how to live.... its not jus about laughs. It teaches u how to cry as well. But keep in mind it will not stay like this. After every sunset, there is sunrise.... and your sunrise will be very soon. You jus have to be patient n wait for tht time. And for now jus be strong and let urself down. And one more thing, You dont need someone to make u happy, u can make urself happy. sometimes we are the reason ourselves to make us sad. Dont let urself hurt u. Thts all i gotta say.... hope it helps.

~Avni

everyones been telling me this lately~
with out pain and trouble, youd never know how it feels to feel happy.

ive been there multiple times so if you *or anyone else* want to talk, email me.

that_freaky_chic@yahoo.com