*sigh* =/

i like this guy Jon and ive known him for years. we never really started talking until a couple days ago. and now we really click. but i feel he only finds me as a reallllllllly good friend. maybe hes misleading me because the way he says things and he seems to flirt. i want him and i to be more than friends and to see that i make commitments too. we have the same morals and share the same stupidity. so whats wrong??? what do i do?? i like him a lot and im confused on whether he finds me more than a friend or ONLY a friend.

Advice, any advice please.......

Well ask him if he feels the same way about you.

You'll never know until you tell him what you feel, and see how he responds.

yea yur rite but im super nervous to ask. im not sure he's ready for a relationship because of his last one. (she got engaged!! =/) Also i dont want to move too fast if he isnt ready. idk if he only wants to be hecka good friends or my bf. im so confused.........

If he just got out of a relationship, then give him some time. You don't want to rush him. But I still say you should tell him. I know it's hard when you're nervous, but you'll feel better after you do, and you never know what could come of it!

Does he seem like the kinda guy who would just walk away if he did find out you liked him as more?
cos if he isnt then what are you going to lose really?
ive kinda been in this situation before and i told him and it didnt change anything between us he was still the same person as before so yeh go for it =]

thanx everyone!! i sent him a message last nite in hopes of him reading it today. my mind is stuck on it for sure i jus dont want things to change at all. even if me and him stay friends id rather us be friends than nothing. thanx for your support!!!! i will reply back to the response i get from him!!! =o]

im glad u spoke up. cuz its good. wut if he loves u 2. hope he does and wish u 2 the best.

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ♥Mya =o]
Date: Jan 9 2007 22:28

the last thing i want to do is get the wrong impression or even give the wrong impression. i could be wrong by saying this so jus let me kw if i am. im jus gonna come out and say it. i like you......thats already a given if you couldnt tell lol. i kw yur not ready for a relationship or anything and thats not what im asking for. idk if its a good or bad thing. anyways jus wanted you to know.....well ttyl

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Jon
Date: Jan 10 2007 15:58

no u werent wrong. im gald u told me, but i kinda already had the hint that u did. well i kinda like u too. but heres the problem im torn between two people, i like u and cheyenne. and im just not sure wat to do. any suggestionsd

Im so crushed =/

Sry to hear that.

I don't know if I'm the only one but it seems weird that he would ask you for suggestions on what he should do...

yea it IS weird seriously how in the world do you respond to that!??!!?

what should i do now........?

im so at a loss for words with him now