how to be happy

how can i be happy with a big secret thats tearing me and my life apart...everywhere i go it gets in the way..i can never be happy because im different im not like the other girls and i want to be, i just want to be normal but i cant beacause im bi....but i dont really like girls my age i like older ones their the ones that attract me but then i also like guys but i dont know what to do and i cant handle this by myself please can someone help me!!

Wow...I actually thought for a moment that you might actually have a REAL problem I could help you out with...

But the solution is NOT that hard.

Learn to love yourself and ACCEPT yourself first. For, without those, you will have a very difficult time going through life. Being bi isn't a DISEASE. It's sexual preference.

If you like the guy, be with him.
If you like the girl, be with her.

When it comes down to it, it doesn't really matter what you chose as long as you're happy! So stop freaking yourself out!

I agree with the post above.
Just be happy with who you are, there is nothing wrong with being bi, nothing at all.
And as for being "Normal", what is that? No-one is normal, there is no normal in the world.

just accept that you are bi, who cares what others think of you, you will find someone whether they are male or female.

take care,
Love Tara-Kay

thanks guys i will give it a try

I agree, just be yourself.

Yeah, you're who you are and you can't change it. Instead of hating it embrace it. It's who you are and you should be proud of yourself.

Be proud of who you are. You'll find out once you know a bit more about yourself in this situation, that someone will love you no matter what...