wedding vows

write your own or deal with what your givin? ideas? opinions? (please don't preach to me about god)

write your own, it gives more meaning to it,
nessa

Write your own!

I agree with Liz.
You should write your own.

Write your own, no doubt about it, way more romantic.

Me and Marcus have written our own.. we can say what we really want to say that way. =)

Definitely write your own
it shows that you really love them and its just a lot more personal

my boyfriend and i have talked about it and were gonna write our own vows..we have a litle thing we say all the time and we deffinately want to put it in ours so maybe you have a sweet litle thing you say, that always makes things cute..

I think that the traditional vows are are so beautiful and even though they are used everyday I still think that they are beautiful. Plus I want a traditional black and white wedding. Me in my white dress and my bridesmaids in black dresses and my fiance in a black and white tux and the groomsmen the same. It's not that I'm not orginal I just have an appreciation for tradition.

Since when are bridesmaids in black? Are you confusing a wedding with a funeral?

Write your own, it's much more personal and it really comes from YOUR heart.

^I don't agree... many marriages do indeed survive the obstacles faced. Sure, the divorce rate is much higher, but marriages do survive.

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www.ultimatewedding.com/poems/
paula x

If your not prepared to make your own vows, your not prepared for marriage. There really is no better way, make your own.

I wat to write my own but here is an example of one i wrote

i stand here before you today to offer my love and my life to this man he is my best friend and my love he is the most important thing in my llife when i look in his eyes i can see the future and i am proud of a beuatiful children in the yard (if u want children) and i know that in life he will protect me from anything that comes our way i will take care of him when he is sick and ill lovee him forever

Write them.

You write them down...the feel of it will be better

Write them on your own. Write them from your heart. It gives more meaning!

Definetly you should write your own because then it would mean more cuz its coming from your heart

I'm not into tradition....and they're so much sweeter when you write em.

Write them yourself because they are your and only your so they show the feelings between you two

You're on this site because you're a poet...WRITE YOUR OWN, and write it from the heart. make it another piece of poetry, the most important piece of poetry