what do you think??? Really?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

what do you think when your parents put a restraining order on your bf/gf for nothing at all......and they (gf/bf) never even see you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! it pisses me off......i'm 16 and i'm thinken bout leaven out of the house cause i have no life at all and i cant even have a good day without my parents messin it up.....and this aint no teenage mental problem/stage that i am goin through................if i had the money i would do it in a second do you think it would be such a good idea?

i agree with sabetta. your parents care for you. they don't want you running out late at night or doing something you should not do.

is your date an honest gentleman. one who opens doors for ladies, helps people out, or is kind and courteous to everyone?

it may say old fashioned or even a bit insecure but if i had a daughter she'd have a chaperone on all her dates. but no one will do that anymore. they'll trust the life of their child with just anyone who walks right off the street.

i support your parents whole heartedly. i'm sorry if you're mad that everyone doesn't agree, seriously. in reality, we have no say and no business prying in your life.

Get outta the hell hole..
Streets are better than your parents house..

haven't you listened to what everyone else has said

I understand......although it has been ages since I was a teen. I did go through something of a similar situation. I know you say it's not a phase you are going through and my opinion is that was the toughest time to go through ages 12-20. Every part of our life is a phase and for lessons to be learned they need to be discovered. If you think that your parents are unjust in their reasoning then if you can self support and your significant other is willing to help and go against their parents advice (assuming that he/she lives at home). Then as I would tell my teen if they thought they could do it and didn't want to listen to me. By all means get out and get your own place and live by your own rules while you know everything. Believe me I thought I knew what was best for me as well at that age and realized as an adult that my parents were just in their decisions. No one can answer these questions you have though without knowing the complete situation. Good Luck in your endeavors...
Dixie

You should probably take a bus to Mexico. Don't forget to bring restraining order Filipo.

Don't be such a spoiled brat and drama queen.... you are underage... don't leave the house. Sides where you gonna stay neway!? you can only stay at yo besties place like forver,... dey gonna kick you out... c'mon use ur brains sometimes....

Sorry for being soo direct.

Manda have you actually lived on the streets? I don't think you have. Her parents put that restraining order on for a reason and probably have a very valid reason. Don't run away, 1 because you're 16, have no where to go, no money and the streets are bloody dangerous these days and 2 that's running away from your problems. You have to stay and sort them out. Good Luck. Remember your parents have your best interests at heart they're not deliberatley going out of their way to emotionally harm you.

jessica, it may seem like we have a little hate parade on you but we really don't want you to make a dumb decision.

if you make the wrong choice you will regret it forever.

above all what we are trying to say is see things from all angles and seek a multitude of counselors. then make whatever decision you want to

your servant:
david

I think the key to helping you here is like the others said why the restraining order? I don`t think the law allows you to just do that arbitrarily I think there has to be a reason. As far as living on the streets unless you`ve tried that I wouldn`t reccomend it to others,Its a cold world out there!

Look u guys and girls......i got more money then u guys think and the only reason that they put a restrainging order on him is because he took my verginity....it was my decision....and i'm not being a damn drama queen.....i know alot more than u guys think i have a place to stay and i get 150 money wise a night working with horses......and i have been saving it.........i see where u guys are going but u dont know the whole story.......and i dont plan on telling u peeps but thanks for the advise......

If it was your choice to lose YOUR virginity by him then it was ur choice and your parents cant do anything about it!

you know what jessica just get out of your house and make a stupid decision. like i care it won't affect me. you asked our opinions and we gave them so don't act so self righteous and treat all of us like ignorant people.

amen

Thanks everyone real help.....oh everyone miss spells some times so dont be an ass about it Bob.... but anyways thanks