FAMILY AND RRIENDS

Why is it ,that when you are the out cast in your family, and you start doing good, everyone all of a sudden hates you all over again. Has anyone else had this problem.

Sorry about the miss spelled word in" friends" my bad

It's suppose to read '' FAMILY AND FRIENDS''

Mm. When you are the outcast, you give them a scapegoat - every bad thing can be blamed on you. When you start doing good things, the bullies have to face the fact that they aren't the better people... which could make them angry at themselves, but take it out on you.

Yea I think they all mad ,because i'm bring all the child abuse to surface and a lot of them are pretty upset about it ,but it's been covered up long enough. And I'm doing something worth while with my life now, and that really upsets them .

Maybe that's what it will take from them to realize what they're doing and try to change. I know for myself, I can tend to get really angry when I'm ashamed of something - that's probably what it is. Hope things look up for you...

Thanks, but they already are,I'm doing something with my life and they can't stand it. One reason is because I chose to work hand in hand with child abuse centers, to help other kids that are going through what I did. And they are afraid , because the world is going to fine out what I went through with my 2 families. The real family and foster parents really no difference, all drunks. But I thought they might be happy that I was trying to make a difference, well who cares I'm happy thats all that matters right...............Thanks

Not as such, but i know what it is to be an outcast, i just wanted to say - keep doing what your doing

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Thanks Tracy, I plan on doing that ,no turning back now done gone to far. Don't even think I will be allowed to go back home anymore, but thats life. I grew up a foster child and the only one , never had a family before I don't think it will kill me to finish my time out without one now.