AHH!! WHAT DO I DO?!?

Ok, here it goes...
I have 3 older brothers, one of them is a senior in highschool.. the other two have gone to wherever.. anyway, my brothers friend is kinda cute.. just a little, ok, maybe alot!! :D and we started txting each other for awhile.. his step brother and my best friend were going out and he was always trying to convince him to go out with me. So there we were, both ditched because i was with my best friend and he was with his brother, so there they go. But i wasn't mad.. of course not! we went driving around and we were out in the country and we got to talking.. he said that it was kinda funny because he is 3 years older than me.. and my brother is his friend.. so about 2 days later we were txting eachother, again.. and he's asked me if i was mad at him because i was just joking with him... and then he's like " i really do like you.." AHH!!!! but the next txt was more heartshattering.. he said that we could never be together because of the age and crap.. but he wishes that he was younger (i was smiling at this) Now, one of his classmates likes him.. and i think that he might like her.. i feel as if i'm losing him, and that would suck, not that i'm stalking him or anything, but i'm afraid that i might lose him as a friend.. now, he hardly ever txts me and told me not to txt him as often because his dad would get mad.. i don't know what to do.. i really need some advice.. Do i just let him go? Because I don't know if i can..

If he likes her that doesn't necessarily mean you'll lose him as a friend. Maybe get in contact another way, like MSN or something?
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You should let him go and yes you can. I understand all to well that it is hard but one good way to look at it is that if it is meant to be then one day it will and if not then you will have to let him go anyway. take it one day at a time and try to be friends with him

But if he does go with her, i know he'll get hurt.. she's one of those girls who is just looking to fill the holes.. and he's going to go to college next year, i just don't know what to do.. I've tried talking to him during school.. but my brother usually shows up and cuts it short, or he might need to be somewhere..

Huni know it sucks but thing is sweety blokes and girls seem to pick the rotten apples off the trees first before reaching abit higher for a decent one because its easier to do that then admit things etc....
and i mean if he does go with her then he does.. he picking a rotten apple before a decent one... and everyone has to have the rotten ones before a gd one.... that so isnt a big age gap...but to him maybe it is and maybe he would be worried about what your bro would say???

why wood his dad be mad you two texting???
if he does get with her i doubt you will lose him... thing is this is whaty happens hunnie... erm...... well if you want him then fight for him and if he said dont text.. well either talk another way.. if your bro does tht while speakin to him then talk to him when your bro aint around.....

and little trick what may help... as he said dont text him often... have you texted him recently because if you havent then send him a simple simple text just saying "i miss you!".... and see what he says...
or message me bk because i got this cute little message thing what you can send him.. its in a code and he wood have to wk it out and it says i miss you.. its so sweet and cute.... :o)

let me know hun

but if he dnt wanna know then walk away hun
xhx

Dont let him go just yet!

Thanks alot! what is that cute little txt thingy? sounds like a good idea!!

Any time!

Anytime

I'm not going to lie, it sounds like he's embarrassed to date someone your age. That's stupid on his part, age is just a number. There's not much you can do about it, just be friends with him. Understand that chances of being with him, and it working out probably aren't so great, but being friends with him can definitely work out. Guys are silly like that sometimes. I'd say, move on. You might even make him jealous and he'll realize what he's missing out on ........

Just let him go. its better that way. by what u wrote it seems like he does want to be with you but he knows it wont work out.

Just back off a little..let him go w/this girl for a while. chances are that if its meant to be, he'll be back my friend..trust me!!
but you know what..boys are stupid. not to mention whores. yes. boys are whores...lol
but hey..if he stays with her, its his loss. if you really think about it, with him graduating soon will you really be able to find time for one another? just don't set yourself up for a bigger heartbreak..
good luck w/everything!!

They are whores!! (no offense to any of the really really nice guys, but i'm sorry, it's true) they are man whores!! but, you see, my brother is going to go to the same school as him, and i have alot of friends up there, and this guy also races almost every weekend.. so i don't know, we might see each other often!