Wot di i do???

My boifriend lives in a different state to me and we are ingaged but i think he isnt very happy wif our relationship cause he was upset yesterday and he didnt know y and he said he dont want to go c a councler cause he is scared that mayb he needs an ofline relationship and i rly dont want to lose him cause he saved my life and made me so happy and i love him so much and he feels the same but i dont know wot to do im lost help me please!!!

Well "Use your heart but use your mind at the same time" :)

Numbner one i dont have the money and two my heart is in the wrong place and i jus cant get my head straight

Can yooh help me i rly need at and i fell lyk im keeping somethin from him or somethin is missing from our relationship but i jus dont know wot?????????

I think what you have to do is pretty obvious!

Talk to him!

If you engaged to him, you should be able to talk to him about anything at all. Thats the whole point.

Yer i have i have done everythin i can think of
well im sorry guy im overreacting jus a bit

He is goignt to c a councler sometime this week and he said i had to be prepared for wat she says and he is goign to give her advise a try and im scared the reason he is depressed is cause of our relationship and i dont want him to break up wif me i rly love him but i want him to be happy he saved my life and i dont want to lose him.....

Can yooh read??

You cant seem to type in proper english. You're hard to understand because you're typing lyk dis lyk a n00b.

How old are you anyway? If you're doubting things and asking people you don't know, you for one, have no place being engaged, and secondly, you have no place being in a relationship. If you love him enough to be engaged, you won't have to ask.

Why cant i ask for advice is that agenst some rules or somethin lyk that and so wat if i dont type perfect all i want is some advice and im 18 okay and y cant i be engaged cause i dont typ perfect and jus cause i ask for advise dont mean i cant be in a relationship okay gosh if your not going to help me then dont bother talking to me.....!

"we are ingaged"

^I don't believe you. You lie. You simply cannot be 'engaged' if you spell it with an 'I' at the age of 18.

You simply cannot.

And for goodness sake. If you type lykke dis den we r all gonna suffa imenseli tryna undersaand wot ur tryna say!

Now. You tell me. Is the latter not going to confuse individuals who DO know how type 'perfectly'?

Please, do yourself a favour and get lessons if you must. We're not asking for you to weave extended vocabulary into your posts, but to simply type as though you ARE an 18 year old who is 'ingaged'. This is a complete and utter joke now.

How do yooh know i dont have some kind of condision yooh know gosh and if yooh dont believe me then get stuffed.... all i want is some help...!!

Well i'm 18 and 'E'ngaged and one thing i know is that being engaged means you can talk to him about anything under the sun, i mean for gods sake, me and Marcus had a wierd conversation about period cycles yesterday!!
If you're really 'e'ngaged you shouldn't even need to be asking advice, you should be able to talk to him, know what he's going through without asking and be able to help without doubting his love.

And having a condition does not stop you typing right. Just type more slowly and not like a chav.

*Gem*

Oh grow up. 'YOOH' call yourself an 18 year old.

Pathetic.

Okay i have talked to him and he dosent know wat is bothering him and we talk about anything but i rly dont know wat to do wat am i ment to do ask him if i should dump him or not and im not doubting his love...

Cmon guys.. these lady could sure use some help??

lets not be so harsh.

Yea. i bet she could use some help........

but not just with her relationship.
im sorry,
but i barely understood any of your posts because thyr all writtn lyk tis.
i don't know how anyone could possibly understand what you're talking about if you can't even type.

Thanx at least some one cares and im sorry its jus how i type well can anyone help me???

Well i have been working as hard as i possibly can to get him up here and he told me he didnt want to break up with me even if thats y he is unhappy and i rly dont want to leve him but i want him to be happy???

Well i dont rly know he has been rly upset latly and he is goign to c a councler sometime this week or next week and we both think its our distance but he said he wont break up with me even if it is the distance...

Yer but there is alot of other things bothering him to... and wat if it is the distance??

Yer i guess well thanx for your help guys and sorry for being Difficult

love you all ThE BeAuTifuL DisAsTeR

^
thats true

Thats not tru any relationship can work if its tru love and i know thats korney but tru

Well. im not going to say anything about your horrible spelling and grammar but if you or him are doubting yourselves then MAYBE you're not ready for that type of commitment....
how are you engaged in different states?
If he loves you he'll make it work and come to you.
~~mine did~~
```````````850 miles``````````````
_______Ohio to Florida______________

Yer well i dont rly care much for spelling and we are making it work out its all good now okay and y arnt i ready for this and yes he lives in VIC and i live in QLD so yer and i myt be going to c him soon i cant wait -YAY-

Does he type this way too?

Just wondering.. because, if not he could be misinterperting [sp] your words for something else, and that might be why he gets mad at you.
Just a thought..?

Yes he dose and can we jus forget my spelling im to not brightest person you could meet okay sorry

Yes he dose and can we jus forget my spelling
^^Lol..m'dear..maybe you should take your spelling seriuosly...Gosh...itz hard to understad

But guys..i think she really needs help so let's stop the game

mm...Ok...you've mentioned somewhere above that you've tried talking to him and you guys yourself don't know what's going lol....you are contradictin yourself......i bet you can sort this out talking to each other properly...Jeez!!..you are engaged and obviously like Gem stated you guys should be abkle to talk about anything under the sun rather thn bringing a counsellor in between this...It's just b'coz either of you or one of you are hiding things you refuse to talk about.......
Even me and my guy are engaged.....but we sure talk about every goddamn thing...I mean nothing really matters as long as you love each other..and as long as you trust each other=)

Yer i know we are all good now we talked lyk all night last night about our problems and stuff and he still hasnt seen the councler do u think he should i myt be goign to c him next year in april i cant wait...

Hey u guy i found out last night that when i go down therre he is going to give me the ring when i get of the plane cause he proposed but its isnt afficial till u get the ring right...
his mum told me and i was so happy

love yall ThE BeAuTifuL DisAsTeR