I think the best relationship advice i ever got was....

Well? what was it?

mine was that most of my relationships ARENT going to last forever, nor should I expect them to, because with every failed relationship you learn what to look for in the next, and eventually you find the one.

and that what happens is what fate decided should happen, and it would have happened regardless of how hard you tried.

these has helped me alot, especially in getting over people... and it helps keep your feelings light about relationships.. i mean right now im with a guy who i would be lucky to spend the rest of my life with, but chances are thats not gonna happen, so i have just accepted that and decided to appreciate what time i do have with him.

so what advice would you give?

Love is not about how often ya'll do it. It's not about how much money you guys net in twenty years. It's not about anything but the two of you and the family you create. It's about the time you spend together and the way you feel for each other.
Don't squander the time and don't ever take it for granted. Because time is not timeless. And they will inevitably leave you and the world. All you'll have left is memories of how that one special person made you feel.

Well i nromally give advice out to my friends and well i used to say to them when they need advice etc well wen i needed it recently they said to me what i say to them... lol

"time is too short to go looking for something you already have!!"

OR

"how do you feel when you see him or when you remember something he did that makes you laugh.... why threw that away for someone that wont do that later on in your relationship..."

well kinda say stuff like that

My dad once told me that in a relationship you can't think about the ending thats to come, if you enjoy the time you spend with the person thats all that matters.

Yea i once heard something genius. Relationships can only go two ways. Break up, or marriage. If you dont count on getting married anytime soon then chances are you might break up with them.

Anyways the best advice I have ever received is like hers ^^ "Never change who you are"

Thats deffinitely most important but i think the problem people have is that most people dont know who they are anyways. People dont take the time to decide whats right for them and whats not right. It could be different and different morals could apply. Idk... Find who you are (which is good for everyone) And stay that person.

Never go into a relationship expecting to change someone.

Also, hold the one you love with an open hand. If someone loves you, they will never even consider cheating on you. If someone does not love you, they will cheat on you. Simple as that. Holding with an open hand is the best test of how deeply someone may or may not love you.

"this relationship will not be exactly like past ones. that's why they're in the past."
my friend bria told me that while i was asking her for advice one day. so obvious but so smart.