SECOND CHANCES

*would you give an ex a second chance?
*have you given an ex a second chance?
*why?

Depends on what it is. ever seen the movie Jonah?!?!

our god is a god of second chances. if he can give others second chances, so can we.

but then again...

fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me.

goes both ways i guess

I broke up with my boyfriend because he was being too controlling and wouldn't let me do certain things. It took him a while to finally understand what he was doing to me then we had a good 5 hour talk at the beach and I took him back. So far he's changed and I'm proud of him.

I love him so much.

Xx and by the way - theres only two things I would never give second chances for. That's being abusive and cheating.

I agree about the whole God give second chances and so should we, but I also agree with not being able to give second chances to abuse and cheating because trust has gone out the window along with the relationship.

What about friends and family's betrayal?
Have you been given a second chance in a relationship?

Yeah, because i suck.

Yea
and yes
we broke up actually like 2 times.. the first time because he was letting his dad's thoughts get to him, then the second time, i dont really know, it was stupid when we broke up.. but now we are back together... and very happy about it.. so its been almost 9 months... but all together with the breaks included its been almost 3 years =)

*yeah, i would... just enough for a change to occur..
*yeah, but so far, she hasn't changed... [sigh]
*because i was expecting some change.. i wanted to feel trusted... she didn't trust me enough.. for no reason.. and she still doesn't.. so i guess it failed... =(

*No, I wouldn't. Not anymore.
*Yes, it was probably one of the worst things that I ever did and I got nothing but heartache
*We had been together for a year and we started having some arguments. So we decided to split up. Well a few months later we worked through our differences and got back together. Only I didn't no that the whole time we were together he was also seeing at least two other girls. I know that for sure. It was horrible. So now, I give a guy one chance... if that ends then obviously it wasn't meant to be because if it was then you would have been able to work through your differences with out breaking up. Many trials and tribulations are going to come into our lifes and the one you love will be there no matter what. Just because something bad happens doesn't mean you should break up. If you really are in love with each other it will work.

Nope . It didn't work out the first time, why would it the second ?
NO, I haven't . I make it clear to my exes when I break up with them that we're done . It's clear . Final . NADA . They know if they come back running I'm just going to kick'em in the face .

..__MiNDYY

Always thats what the other cheek is for

I would give an ex a second chance, yes. though it does depend on who the ex is, why we broke up, how much he hurt me, etc..
but sometimes getting with an ex is a bad idea. my friend did it and it ended even worse the second time.
i guess it's just something you'de really have to think about..

I think there is a difference between giving someone a second chance and forgiving them.

Giving someone a second chance is taking a risk on something that you probably already know the outcome to. Not a good idea.

Its best just to forgive and let go. Why waste your time?

*would you give an ex a second chance?
--It depends. Sometimes things can be fixed, as long as the problem wasn't too serious and is fixable. Some things, however, are unforgiveable, and don't deserve another chance (like cheating).

*have you given an ex a second chance?
--No.

*why?
--I've never had any crazy, dramatic break-ups. We just weren't working, and we knew it. They didn't want a second chance, and neither did I.

*no
*yes i have before
*okay so i dated this guy off and on for about 3 years... & even though it was over 3 years it wasnt that serious & now that i look back on it... i really don't know why we kept getting back together... yeah at the time it's what i wanted... but i've realized the only reason i kept going back to him was because i felt alone & i knew he would take me back... i really regret it... after that 3 years... i told myself that once it's over that's how it stays... but now i'm in a serious relationship & if we were to break up... i think i'd take him back depending on the reason we broke up....so i dont really know what to tell you... if he cheated on you DON'T take them back... If you're just lonely DON'T take them back... If you TRULY love them ...take them back...

Its only human to make mistakes...Some one very special to me said this to me becuase of something he did.
I had been very mad a this person for the mistake he made and he said to me "Its nopt as if we can live our lives and be perfect" I finally forgave him and now Im am alot more forgiving of people.
It happened with my first real boyfriend who i gave a second chance. Although we arnt together now we are still great friends and im glad i gave him a second chance =)

Depends on why u broke up. if u broke because of cheating then hell no.

*Second chance*) Well it all depends....on what the first one was like. I have given a second chance a few times and the second was bad they never changed or were diff. I wouldn't really give a second chance....That is me because I wouldn't want to go through pain all over again.

1. depends on the situations on why we broke up
2. And yes i have and it was a total mistake i still really liked him and he asked me back out. but then i found out 2 weeks later that he was going to break up with me again.

Give an ex a second chance? yes i would and i have. i gave my ex girlfriend a second chance and were both taking it. she cares for me and i know it. but thats just me.

because even god believes in second chances

My last ex in a hard beat i would give him a second chance...

everyone deserved second chances

I wouldn't give an ex, a second chance, because what happened and the past wil be the past.

I have given an ex and second chance and it is so worth it... i love him sooo much....

I dislike to broadcast about it :(