What is it?

Why is it that we have to go through death? Why do we have to have pain when some thing happens to some one we love.

Mm, because we know the answers to these questions. [BLATANT SARCASM.]

it's just human nature, if you love someone, it's common sense that if something bad happens to them it hurts you too.

Yes I do know that. I just don't get how it comes and goes so fast.

It's part of life. You can't live forever. It's part of the great big circle of life. Sure when you lose someone you love it's going to hurt... bad. Just look at it this way, they are in a better place now (hopefully) watching over you.

Because shit happens. Life can fade in the blink of an eye. It's sucks but it's for the best. And if it didn't hurt when a loved one passed then they cannot rightfully be called a 'loved one' now can they? Suck it up. You'll survive.

We go through death because it is something that has to happen. We all know it. And we we have to have pain becuase if we didn't how could be call a person a loved one if we didn't hurt if something happened to them?
These things are bound to happen, And Im afraid there is no simple answer.

^..As well as being b.... oh wait I can't say that... but I don't have to for you to know what it was ;)