I NEED A GUYS OPINION, FAST!!!!!!!!

I have a step-cousin that is into me and we are only related through marriage. And my boyfriend is great too. And I sort of like my cousin. HELP!!!!

You can think pot, but don't do it.

as for the cousin thing i have to ask what part of the united states you live in....just joking, but seriously i say no, bad idea, don't do it, ix nay on the oy be

Well, what do I tell my cuz?

I am sure you have probably broken up with guys before. just tell him what's on your mind (sort of). i don't know. say that it isn't right to be going out with your cousin, you don't want to create havoc in the family etc etc. and that you have a boyfriend so your out of bounds. you'll think of something

Well, my problem is that I sort of kind of gave him my first kiss to. then what?

Tell him to get off you, the perv. i mean that in the best and/or worse way

That is very comforting ha ha ha ha! Okay, so I did have a lil crush on him but me and my bf have been going out for almost seven months.

Is anyone goign to post back?!

You know it's funny how you're shunned throughout most of your life until now when everyone keeps baggering me about their questions.

i care not for your lives! shun the nonbelievers!

I don't get what you just said at all, could you be a little more explanitory.

Argh!

I would like to know if you have ever been in a realationship and you have fallen for another person?

She was a psycho, i was young, end of story. she was hot in that mini skirt though

Oh, david. you and your shunning. it's so compelling.... *bats eyelashes*

So, girl. you have a boyfriend. But you kind of like your cousin. and you kissed your cousin? while you were with your boyfriend? or before? or you kissed your boyfriend? Yes, I'm confused. Anyway, while liking your step cousin isn't necessarily perverted (I mean, people used to marry their first cousins...) but it might indeed be odd, especially if you've grown up together. Furthermore, it would be totally awkward if you went out, and broke up. You can avoid old boyfriends with ease... less so if you have to run into them at every family gathering. thirdly, if you got married, your poor children would have an awful family tree to learn. and last... you do have a boyfriend. Consider that, before any of your other options.

It's ok to be attracted to people outside your relationsihp. Bu there's no reason to act on every whim.

Then there was this other girl who had a thing for elijah wood, damnit! bad memories

I kissed him before I got my boyfriend, I could never cheat on anyone. And to start, I am going up to my nan's house for a couple of days, and he lives across the street. He comes over all the time. What should I do now?

Before you make the long walk across the street think about what is right. what makes you happoy but at the same time you're not gonna regret for the rest of your life

That is great advice, but I am really close with my aunt.

That's it i've had it, i'm done. now it's dave johnson spectator man

Do you know Trey Johnson?

Do you want me to slap you upside your head now or later?

Trey Johnson is my boyfriend I thought maybe you would be related or something.

What does that mean? that because my last name is johnson and his is johnson that i automatically know him? racist! racist! PREPARE THE GUILLOTINE!

What the hell is your problem, all i did was ask a simple question!

Lol! david! go take your pills and sleep it off!

Miranda, please ignore him. I think he starts going crazy around the fatuously nonsensical.

Thanks, so what should I do? I mean I am madly in love with trey, but I spend more time with my cuz, because I can't go places with my boyfriend yet.

No wait wait wait. i want thise resolved. i want justice.

how many johnson's do you think there are?

Idk, but they are all prolly nicer than you. Either you hate me or you just need to sleep it off like she said. So if you will please forgive me for what I said and we can talk about his rationally.

I'm gonna go gettysburg on your rear end! so you like that pennsylvania reference in my threat?

Yeah, I live in Pennsylvania, and I get that, but I think if you could just be nice, I would be nice too.......

Well, hm. I could give you the general answer, which is that infatuation at a young age is pretty strange. I do believe that 13 year olds are entirely capable of intense emotions, obviously. I remember. But at this point in your life, isn't the relationship you have with your boyfrend basically the same as that you'd have with any other guy friend? You like him, you hang out with him sometimes... maybe it's just closer than most. But what I'm saying is that you -are- young, as you might as well have fun and not take things so seriously. You probably don't have a huge stable basis with your boyfriend that would even be threatened by your attraction to someone else. If you do love your boyfriend, and wish to "remain loyal only unto him," then you should maybe avoid your cousin. But if you like your cousin equally much, which is probably likely, considering (but trying not to judge by) your age, then maybe you should break up with him, so that you can have fun, be young, and flirt with anyone you like. (The cousin thing is just straight up oddish, though.)

Well hun I love your choice of words and I think you are about the nicest one that hass talked to me i this section.

Oh, now I feel bad....

I hope things work out for ya! Life is fun, love-angst and all : )

By the way, maybe you should talk to your boyfriend about this. I don't know how close you are, but maybe he could give you some good input, and help put things into perspective.

You know what that is a good idea, I think I will call him tommorrow, so we can discuss it But whta if he si mad or jealous?

I AM being nice, you should see me on the debate floor. then you'd know what this picture stands for

Sexy

He might be mad. but I'd hope that he'd at least appreciate that you're talking about it directly with him and looking for his thoughts, as compared to just sneaking around. make sure you let him know what you feel about him, and just want to be open and honest.

Thx so much, i will do that.

I thought sibyllene was talking about me....but...it....was that guy.....oops

Does that sadden you dave?