Long Distance..?

Hey...

I'm going away for university (from Canada to Europe)...and I REALLY like this guy..
We've been realy close friends for 4 years..but even closer the past 2.
His best friend told me that the guy i like really likes me too, but he (guy i like) never told me himself.
I was wondering whether I should tell him I like him or not...I dont know if a long distance relationship would work...I also don't want to lose him as a friend..
But on he other hand...i dont want to question it later on -- "what if.."

I'm coming back every christmas.and summer..

Any advice..?
thanks.<3

If it's meant to be, it will work

Hell, my parants managed a long distance relationship for nearly 7 years before they both settled in England and married. (My mom lived in South Africa with her parents and Ireland before that (She's Irish) My dad's english but they actually met in South Africa when he lived there with his parents)

If they can make it work, so can anyone.

Yeah!!

If you really love him, i do not know why you should not tell me, he has got his rights to know too .. if you really think it can work, move on .. good luck. :)

Hmm..well like i've said before, it all depends on how much you want to be together. My friend has been away from her boyfriend for about 2 months now and is going even further away because she is leaving for Cali in a week. Still, she plans on staying with him and he plans on staying with her. If you truly love or care about someone and don't let distance get in the way, it can work.

From personal expierience..it can be difficult not having them there by your side...

"if it's meant to be, it will work" somehow, this really rings true for me. Gemma knows, my boyfriend and i live 250 miles apart, but we're still really close. if you both are willing to work for it, i say "Happy lovin'"

Thank you guys so much..
i really appreciate it
<3

It's difficult. My boyfriend and I are only four hours away, yet we still have troubles seeing each other. It's hard being without that lovely affection... *shrug* But it has been rough the past few days. It does eventually get better, just an up and down cycle.

I was talking to him today..
and i was going to tell him
but he seems different....after I told him about me leaving..
I dont think im going to tell him about my feelings...
it seems like hes trying to move on..getting over it all...

like I've been the one messaging him...i didnt msg him for 2 days...and i dont think he cared...then i msged him today..and after 5 minutes he said he had to go buy a few binders for school the next day..and he would message me later on in the night..
I came online at 9..and we were both online..and he didnt message
he didn't even call..
ergh...i hate this...