Indescrible paiin.

WHy do some of us get so depressed we want to take our own lives??
Why is it we get stuck in a sadness that feels like a physical pain??

Because we do, and if you feel that way, don't.

I don't really know...all i can say is i relate..
I guess try to figure out why you feel bummed...i mean, there has to be a reason right? Try to focus on the positive (that's the answer everyone gives, but it can work) Answer your question why do you want to die. Is it to hide form the pain and just think how your family and your freinds would feel if you killed yourself. And if you hurt so bad inside that you feel like you can't handle it anymore try to talk to someone. Even if your the type that doesn't like to open up to poeple. Getting it out can be better than nothing. Try to get into somehting you like to do or somehting to get your mind off feeling really bad.
That sadness that feels like a phsical pain..i dunno what it is. Maybe its like a heartache...an ache that just consumes you. I seroiusly don't know why we can feel so bad. just don't kill yourself, try to fix that sadness...I know my advice wan't the best but i hope you start to feel better inside and if you need to talk i'm here...

I'm with luce on this.

Because you decide to obsess on things that make you sad. Instead of moping because your boyfriend/girlfriend broke up with you why not just forget him/her and find a new one? Why sit at home and cry because you have no friends when you can just go out and make some. Don't sit their and think about deceased friends/family 24/7. Hold them in your heart and do them proud by going on and being successful at life.

Well i guess its just human sometimes the world is against u well not all pain is mental if ur physically hurt well dont commit suicide though i heard those hu do goes to hell...sometimes i wish to take tat knife too but then if i think abt it i still haf a long way to go and anyway i want to know my future

Maybe we don't want to die, we just want to end the pain that we go through?

Just coz
sometimes we cant explain everything

Because that is the meaning of life

I don't think this question has a right answer. In fact, I don't think it has an answer at all. If there was an answer we wouldn't feel that way.

"Because you decide to obsess on things that make you sad. Instead of moping because your boyfriend/girlfriend broke up with you why not just forget him/her and find a new one? Why sit at home and cry because you have no friends when you can just go out and make some. Don't sit their and think about deceased friends/family 24/7. Hold them in your heart and do them proud by going on and being successful at life."
i couldnt disagree with this post any more.
if we decide to obsess then that must mean people decide to be depressed decide to have ocd. i dont think so.
it takes alot of time & professional help to change the way your mind works & in some cases its impossible, so by simply deciding your gonna change it doesnt work. it can help get the ball rolling but your mind wont magically have a different perceptions.
going out to make new friends is a grand idea for someone with sacks of confidence but for those without none the thought of doing so can create a mass of anxiety & actually set of a downward spiral of uncontrolable negative thoughts.

people will think about death and some people will end their lives. thats the way the world works. suicide is not an easy way out like alot of people say. has anyone seen the documentry film called "the bridge" about people commiting suicide from the golden gate bridge. if you are interested in suicide (i dont mean actually suicidal yourself) i recommend watching it. gives an insight into why those people decided to end it all. mental illness n in some cases just utter desperation.

Bcoz some of us react negatively and some react positively.
i guess thats pretty much it.

xx

"all pain is mental...."

I completely agree. If you truly believe that the pain is there, than its there. if you believe that it isn't, then it wont be there.

It is physical too...some things the world won't take back, and its too much...so we seek answers in the end

Because we are human and that's just an emotion we've been given with.

Some people just can't cope with their emotion and feel death is the only way out... everyone is different.

As cruel as it is, this is life and death is a part of it.

I agree with the previous comment,
Everyone has a different way of dealing
but some people feel that there is just no way for them to cope.
Often people say that it is the cowards way out but
people who do kill themselves are usually the people
who have been living in silence
and are now unable to cope.
So they feel that death is the only answer
and is the silencer of their hurt and pain

Because life and people are so selfish and love to hurt others.