I CANT GET OVER MY FIRST

So let me just jump right into why im posting this. last year i was with this guy and i really thought i cared about him..sadly i gave in and i gave myself up to him. i broke up with him not too long after that..i still see him around..and for some reason i still feel attached..i just want to know what are some ways i can just get over it/him??..sometimes its hard for me to move on so i need ur advice..thanks soo much

You wont get over him.

Go date other people.

Have fun.

Im still in love with my first n its been 14months NOW !

Hun cheak out my post "broken"
I too gave myself up:(:(
Im 14 an he was 18
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An now its over an hes trying to hurt me! an its working kill me</3

Thank you..im trying to date other guys..i just wish i could have saved myself for someone who actually cared..

YOU broke up with HIM. by your own choice, he is no longer your concern. Move on.

You broke up with him so there must have been some reason: A good reason mind you!

Maybe you're trying too hard.

Do you really need to have a boyfriend?

Are you better off being single for now?

My advice:

The best stuff comes about when you're not looking for it.

Ull get over him when u are ready, until then, just try to heal.

I got over my first mighty quick.
bastard of a human being.
wish i'dve not givin into his pressure, would've saved it..

Oh dear.. another i'll never get over him..

Sweetie, you're young and i can promise that in twenty years when your married, have three kids, a dog and a cat, you WILL NOT be pining over the spotty kid you went with in school/college.

You'll always be attached...he was your first. you gave him something that you cant give anyone else now....and you'll always remember him.... but hopefully time will make it better and you'll learn how to deal with those feelings =]

"You'll always be attached..."

No, you wont. Don't tell her something like that. Jesus.

I think maybe what silent eyes means is that in a way, she'll always remember him because he was your first. But that definitely doesn't mean you won't get over him.

Once you find a better guy, POOF! His memory will be gone. Whatever you do though, don't go back to him for...you-know-what...thats the best advice I can give you.

I stand by what i said earlier.

Im still attached to my first "love" but im with the most amaxing guy ever and yeah i think about my first sometimes, but you know what, the guy im with now is a million times better and i would never go back to my first if i had the chance, when your older and find someone that blows this guy out of the water, you'll understand, bfs are overated, you have to be able to stand on your own two feet before you can be in a relationship with someone, and know your strong enough to be alone before you commit yourself to someone

I WISH i could forget my first.
well...actually something just dawned on me.
all this time ive been considering him as my first when i didnt give it to him, he took it.
so actually, i am with my first. consentual, that is.