Girls only!!

Im wondering whos ever been in a relationship where your in love but he's not quite as much as u..

Yup, thats me, and it sucks.

People progress at different rates when it comes to everything in life, just because he is not at where your at does not mean he wont be one day or that you mean any less to him.

Yupp, I was just dumped three weeks ago by him....and I thought he was the one......until I saw him flirt with my so called friend!....what happened to you?

I thought that he loved me as much as i loved him but obviously he didn't considering he broke up with me not too long that we started going out..... i am over him now. but i wouldn't call it love. i just liked him a lot not love.

That's not a real relationship then, is it?

Lol, Bob. My statement was directed at the original poster. If you don't feel as though your love is being returned, I wouldn't call it a relationship. It's a one way game, really.

Just my thoughts.

Yeah, paddy's got that right. people throw the words 'love' and 'relationship' around way too much.
I think you need to be in a 'relationship' for a while before even consedering the 'L' word. (use it with care)

Aye..that happened to me. it was terrible. he told me he loved me and was gonna marry me. then less then a week later he broke up with me. and i was serious but i guess he wasnt. definitely wasnt fun. =[ but eh. i guess it just wasnt meant to be. still sucked tho

Yeah, I loved him so much but he didnt love me enough so he broke up with me. Some of my poetry is based on that. Alot of those feelings does create good poetry.

-SS

Yeah been there and still there he says that he loves me and stuff and wen i say how much he says alot .. then tells me to shut up lol cause hes not into sharing his feelings alot .. but sometimes it leave me woundering where i stand with him after a year ... and

P.S paddy i love that cat its soooo cute ! haha

Lol, thank you.

"wen i say how much he says alot .. then tells me to shut up"

That's interesting, haha.

Yes!!! ...well kinda. I wouldn't call it love, but the guy i was with i liked him more then he did me. I was willing to overlook his flaws, but he wanted to point them out. or maybe it was he liked me more, and felt like he wasn't good enough...? i dont know, either way, yes i have, and it sux but there are better fish in the sea. :) and more things to worry about.
-Bianca

Well , i have some thing llike that right now .. my friend say its love becuase the what love really mean is ... " when your around that person every problem every worry gose away and your happy over the little things with that person" well i feel tha with this one guy right now ... but your not going out and i dont think he feels that way yet adn it puts me in such a bad place for the fact we both promised each other we wouldnt fall for each other so fast .. and look at my stupid ass

Yeah......it sucks, and when they pretend to love you just as much as them? ever been with someone who doesn't like you....and you are utterly addicted to him?.....that sucks.... but mostly the worst thing is when guys liek you and you dont even like them like that....or when u use to like them and now u just think they are lame.......and they are addicted to you.....
its so hard!!!!!! love sucks ass man

Yup...but i managed to move on..now im just on my search for someone that HONESTLY cares about me..

Its the other way around for me...
and i haven't had enough time (3 months) to fall in love with him.

He might be as in love as you are but guys have a horrible way of showing it. i don't know why. or he's not as serious as you are. he may love you but he's not ready to make any further moves in your relationship. i don't know how old he is but get him drunk and ask him questions! lol you'll get all the answers! just don't make a big deal about them till he is sober again!

It usually happens but i guess as long as u know on ur part u loved trully

Back in high school and he took great pleasure in playing with my feelings.

Now i'm in a relationship where it's equal and great =)