My whole life ahead of me..right?

Im having trouble like getting into this relationship not because i dont like him..or because hes not the right one...but because im scared that i have to make every right decision right now..
do you think living in the moment is alright?

That depends entirely on your situation.

At 14 I would be more inclined to concentrate on the most important factors of life, like school and family.

But, everyone is different and more or less precocious.

So live in the moment if that is your choice but remember this: Ultimately only one person has to cope with the choices you make. Mistakes happen and we often learn most from them, but try not to make it too big a mistake or you'll regret it.

You don't need to live your whole entire life on a plan...Say, 7:00 wake up, 7:15, pee, 7:16, wash your hands...etc. You only live life once. Live in the moment. But you also do need some structure, good judgement. You need to know when it's right to have some fun and when it's not right. Your life needs to have a basic plan, some sort of structure, but you also need to just...do.

Do what yu KNOW and what FEELS right..u know whats wrong from right..so just hve fun and share your happiness with the ones you care about..but be wise..

I live in the moment....but my dad thinks thats bad because if u live in the moment u dont think of consiqueces....and ive gotten in alot of trouble so i c where hes comen from!

Living in the moment does not mean you still cannot make good decisions and know right from wrong.