Meetin sum1

Well i been talkin to this guy online. i am goin to meet him soon.. i know, i know, b careful.. but wht im wonderin is...

wht is the right moves to make... im tryin to be more then friends

wht shouldnt i do when im around him,...

plzzz help~~

Okay, well since your old enough to make your own decisions I won't regurgitate my mothers being careful lecture.

All I can say is, dates are awkward, but meeting him will be awkwarder than awkwarder.

But you do know him from your online conversations, so whenever your at a lost for words, bring up some of the old topics.

As for being more than just friends, at first just try to be friends with the guy, wait for a couple dates before you move on to something more, unless of course it is love at first sight, or even lust at first sight, which is kind of unlikely.

Remember you have this image of someone amazing in your head, but be prepared for disappointment, but don't lower your standards either. I hear usually the person you expect is not what you'll get when meeting someone online.

Finally, I have like to no experience in this whatsoever, I just watch a lot TV's, a couple twisted documentaries, and of course read many trashy novels.

Don't take my word for it, just wait for a few more replies.

Good Luck!

Did a lot of people not just tell you to keep your sights on your daughter, because she is infinitely more important than your love life? Personally, I believe that your daughter should come first, but you shouldn't be expected to completely throw away any chance of landing a man.
This however, isn't the best way of doing it. Meeting someone that you have been talking to on the internet... I can't even think of all the ways that is a bad idea.
Since you are eighteen, you should try some things your own age to meet new people. (If you are religious, try a youth group). Try joining some kind of club, group activity, or something.
I hope the best for you. Just make sure that you don't throw your self on this guy, cause he'll throw you back.

Alex

Okay...

is my past threads going to haunt me for eternity or sumthin?

i am takin care of my dang daughter.. i am allowed a love life also. its not like im puttin a guy first b4 her. nothing like that wht so ever...and she isnt meeting him either. not till this gets really serious...this is making me mad that everyone keeps saying she comes fisrt. dont u people think i know this. i jus ask for a lil advice n everyon acts like they know my entire life n how i should n shouldnt run it.

i know the chances of meeting someone. me and this guy done talked about this..

all i wanted was adive on things i shouldnt do when i meet him and things i should do...

The usual: Meet in a public place with a sitter to take care of your daughter for you. Take it up as a blind date, say that you will be waering this or that and find out what he would be wearing. Get to know him in person first, we all act different online and real life even if it's minor changes, before seeing if you want to be more than friends.