Help!

Well, here's the deal. There's this girl that my man has known my man for about 3 years now. They work at the loan agency together. Lately, I've been noticing that she calls a lot for my man and I don't like it. I already told him (in a nice way) that I don't like that. He understood, and she quit for a bit. Then, today when we went to her house for a little party, she ignored me so much, and she kept flirting with my man. I didn't tell him anything, but I was pissed. I don't want my fiance and i to fight just for some dumb broad. What should I do?

Well he really didn't pay attention to the flirting, but I just hate when she does that. I was afraid someone would say he's not worth keeping. He is because I've known him most of my life. I just don't know what to do. He knows how I feel towards her though.

I agree 100 percent with jess..she couldn't have said it any better..she's only doing it to make you mad..she wants to get to you..make you think something is going on between her and your man when in reality it's really not..i was in th same type of situation not to long ago..and the best thing i can say is show her that you don't care and that you know you got your man and she can call and call all she wants but it don't make a difference..

I agree 100 percent with jess..she couldn't have said it any better..she's only doing it to make you mad..she wants to get to you..make you think something is going on between her and your man when in reality it's really not..i was in th same type of situation not to long ago..and the best thing i can say is show her that you don't care and that you know you got your man and she can call and call all she wants but it don't make a difference..

I agree 100 percent with jess..she couldn't have said it any better..she's only doing it to make you mad..she wants to get to you..make you think something is going on between her and your man when in reality it's really not..i was in th same type of situation not to long ago..and the best thing i can say is show her that you don't care and that you know you got your man and she can call and call all she wants but it don't make a difference..

Sorry bout that my computer was being retarted!!

They have known each other for 3 years, so it is not like it is a new relationship. Was there ar reason, other than she is a girl, that you do not like the two of them talking to one another? Of course she is going to ignore you when you make it known you dont like her, it would be rather fake to act like your best friend.

^ The only thing that gets me like really pissed off is that she flirts with him in front of me. I would've done something to hurt her because I don't want anyone to get into our relationship, but I don't wanna look like the bad person. I already talked about it with my man this morning and he said he's gonna talk to her when they go back to work. Thanks for all your help.

Well.. listen.. you obviously love him, and you have a beautiful son with him, so obviously this relationship is VERY important... the key is communication, he needs to let this woman know she is crossing boundries and he is already very much so taken, and that she should stop trying to be a homewrecker.

Yes, we are really in love and our son made our relationship stronger.

^That's exactly what she is, she's a homewrecker.

Baby, I just want u to know that nothing is goin on w/ her all right. U know I've always loved u ok n I won't leave u for no one. U and Tony are the only important ok. Te amo con todo mi corazon amor mio. Nunca lo olvides ok.

Tell him how you feel...but stay calm when you talk to him!

I would straight up tell her in nice words to back off and bite me

^_^ Ha ha, I've tried doing that by telling her in nice words, but she keeps doing it. If she does keep doing it, she'll my my bad side.

Oh in that case id tell that slore to frikin back away from my man unless she wants to look even worse then i would take that girl down cause if you already told her to in a nice way it would have to get ugly lol and btw 2 just tell your man not to talk to her if he wants to keep you!!=)

Well, I can't stop him from talkin to her since they work together. If you noticed, he replied to the topic and I really appreciated that he did because now I know he really does he care and he should because I have his son.

^I like the way you think though. It seems like you understand me.