Help?

Okay.

well okay i have a boyfriend that i want to dump but he says if i dump him hes going to tell my parents about my other ex bfs and well i want to dump him bc of another guy i'm in love with! what should i do? and i only want answers that are going to help me.

Woh woh, slow down.. you have more than one boyfriend? Or are you talking about past boyfriends? Well, either way.. I say you dump his sorry butt. Don't let his threats get to you. If you really don't want to be with this guy, then you shouldn't be. Don't let him get the best of you, you don't deserve that. You deserve someone you'll be happy in a relationship with. Find someone new.

Dump his a**, hes just your regular everyday jerk.

^ I agree with the posts above. If you're not happy with this guy and he's threatening you, that's just bulls***!! You definately need to dump his a** and get someone better, if you haven't already. Good luck! =P

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When he says that to you, inform him that you will tell your parents he tried blackmailing you into staying with him by threatening to go to your parents if you didn't, I think they might find that a bit more disturbing than you dumping him, however, if you wish to avoid moments like this all together, son't be sneaky, dump the person you are with before you find someone new, as much for him as for yourself, reputations, true or false, are easy to build and hard to get rid of.

If you don't love him then dump him. he is only trying to get you to stay with him, if it is someone else that you love then don't let his threats get to you. you can show him that you are a better person and go be happy :)

Why would you have "other bfs" in the first place? I think you should tell you parents before he does so then you can be free. But how are you in love with someone else when your not even with them?

"Why would you have "other bfs" in the first place? I think you should tell you parents before he does so then you can be free. But how are you in love with someone else when your not even with them?"

I think she's talking about past boyfriends, not boyfriends she has at the same time. *sigh*

I think that is hilarious...what an awesome way to keep someone you want to be with, black mail them...would it be bad if he told your parents? i dont see why it would...just find something you could blackmail him back with, and tell him to screw off or you'll...tell his friends he sucks in bed...then he'll probably just let you go...

My parents wont respect me for it they will ground me from everything! i guess i will dump him but its going to take me time.

Just dump him. your parents will find out about the other ones. I mean trust me parents arent stupid they will find anything.

^ Bob has a point. =D

I agree with bob as well, your only younge once, you should still be in the cooties stage if you ask me. but its not my plcae to intrude on anyones life, but you should seriously dump him, and not even worry about antoher guy for a while.

I don't think she HAS multiple boyfriends! I think it's PAST boyfriends shes talking about

Okay. I dont have multiple bfs THEY ARE PAST bfs!

and I'm 15 and yeah i dont think i should still be in the cootie stage. I am past that i say 7th and down should still be in the cootie stage.

O wow ok well i didnt know you were only 15 i personally think you need to grow up a little bit before you start dating. Maybe your parents should know about your past bfs!

^ great advice i say follow it

Ok. these people are confusing me, from what you said, your current boyfriend will tell your parents about your EX'S right? so what? they didnt know you were dating? they'll get over it trust me. or your could tell them your bf is lying because you broke up with him!?
dump the jerk. i dont think he will do it. hes a coward. hes trying to intimidate you. dont let him.
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Taegan Emily

Okay.

im just gonna break up with him. i dont care if my parents find out anymore its better than taking crap that im getting on here.

Thanks for the help anyway.

Hope everything went well.
gd luck with future guys.
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