Have you ever noticed that the worst way to miss someone is when they are right beside you and you can never have them?
When the moment you can't feel them under your fingertips you miss them?
Have you ever wondered which hurts the most; saying something and wishing you hadn't, or saying nothing at all and wishing you had? I guess the most important things are the hardest to say.
They are the things you get ashamed of because words diminish them, and words shrink things. Something that seemed timeless when it was in your head, is reduced to no more than living size when they it's brought out...
Don't be afraid to tell someone you love them. If you do, they might break your heart, but if you don't, you might break theirs.
Have you ever decided not to become a couple because you were so afraid of losing what you had with the person, or become a couple thinking things would work out perfectly, and then have it all come back and slap you in the face?
Your heart decides who it likes and who it doesn't. You can't tell your heart what to do. IT does it on it's own...When you least suspect, it or even when you don't want it to.
Have you ever wanted to love someone with everything you had, but the other person was too afraid to let you?
Or have you ever been loved with all of that persons heart, but you went and broke it anyways, for fear of getting too attached, or possibly even falling in love?
Too many of us stay walled because we are too afraid to care too much....For the fear that the other person doesn't care as much or at all, or that we might care too much, and then get trampled on.
Have you ever loved someone and they had absolutely no idea whatsoever? Or at least thought they had no idea, but they ended up knowing it all along, just didn't care?
Have you ever fallen for your best friend in the entire world, and then had to sit around, watching them love someone else?
Have you ever denied your feelings for someone because your fear of rejection was too hard to handle?
We tell lies when we are afraid...Either afraid of what we don't know, afraid of what we don't want to know, afraid of what others will think, or afraid of what will be found out about us. But every time we tell a lie...No matter how big, small, convincing or pathetic it is, the thing we fear only grows stronger.
Life, and love, is all about risks. It requires you to jump for what you want, as opposed to leaving you to wait 'til it comes floating by...
Don't be a person who has to look back and wonder what they would have or could have, or could have had or missed out on.
If you see an opportunity for a meaningful relationship, or possibly even love, don't wait for the right timing, because it'll never come. Not according to your standards, anyways. The time to express your feelings is never perfect...No matter how badly you wish it was. If you have your chance, go for it. Because nobody waits forever...
