Woman, listen. I’m not here to condemn you.
I’m here to wake you up.
Because hell is not a theory.
And heaven is not a fairytale.
It’s real and many women you see in church every Sunday…
will not make it.
Yes you love God.
Yes you go to church.
But God does not measure worship by noise,
He measures it by obedience.
And I have to ask you plainly:
Are you truly living in holiness?
Let’s stop sugarcoating it.
Let’s talk truth.
Let’s go word for word.
The Bible says in 1 Peter 3:3–4,
“Do not let your beauty come from outward things
like braided hair, gold jewelry, or fine clothes.
Instead, it should come from within
a quiet and gentle spirit that is precious in God’s eyes.”
But what do we see today?
Women who say they love God
but can’t leave makeup, can’t leave jewelry,
can’t leave the wigs, the tight clothes, the fake nails.
Why? Because the world told you beauty has a new standard.
And you believed it.
But God says, “I created you perfectly.”
When you add to His design, you're saying,
“God, You didn’t do enough.”
Woman, stop altering your body.
No more surgeries. No butt lifts. No breast implants.
No fillers. No bleaching.
Isaiah 45:9 says:
"Woe to the one who argues with his Maker...
Shall the clay say to the potter,
‘What are you making?’”
You are not your own creation.
You are HIS.
No wigs. No hair coloring. No artificial beauty.
Wigs are spiritually dangerous.
Many don’t know — they carry spirits.
Do you want to look pretty, or do you want to make heaven?
No revealing clothes.
No transparent dresses. No cleavage. No tight skirts.
You are distracting your brothers and calling it fashion.
But God sees it as a weapon of lust.
And you say, “It’s not my fault they lust.”
But Matthew 18:7 says:
“Woe to the one through whom temptation comes.”
You say, “God sees my heart.”
Yes, He does — and that’s the problem.
He sees what man can’t.
No pants.
Deuteronomy 22:5 says:
“A woman shall not wear what pertains to a man.”
Pants were not made for women.
We adopted the world’s culture and ignored God’s Word.
No tattoos.
No piercings. No earrings. No nose rings.
Leviticus 19:28:
“Do not cut your bodies or put tattoo marks on yourselves. I am the Lord.”
Why do you mark what God made holy?
No abortion.
Don’t kill what you created in pleasure.
You say you’re not ready for a baby,
Then why do what is meant only for marriage?
Life is sacred.
God hates the shedding of innocent blood (Proverbs 6:17).
Married women, submit to your husbands.
Stop fighting to be the head that is not your role.
Ephesians 5:22:
“Wives, submit to your husbands as unto the Lord.”
You were called to build your home, not destroy it with pride.
Single women stop playing games.
Today you love him, tomorrow you don’t.
You chase feelings, not God.
And you wonder why your spirit feels dry.
Learn to love God before you love a man.
Stop chasing marriage like it’s salvation.
Salvation comes from Christ, not from a wedding ring.
Enjoy your single season.
Use it to build discipline, character, and holiness.
That’s what prepares you for real love God’s kind of love.
No women pastors.
You can lead, you can teach, you can pray.
But pastoral authority was never given to women.
1 Timothy 2:12 says:
“I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man.”
This is not about ability — it’s about order.
Protect your body. It is the temple of the Holy Spirit.
No condoms. No tampons designed by the enemy.
No secret sins in the name of comfort.
Everything is spiritual.
Even your personal care can be defiled.
Holiness is not an option. It is a requirement.
Hebrews 12:14:
“Without holiness, no one will see the Lord.”
Not your pastor’s holiness.
Not your mother’s prayers.
Yours.
So yes this message is a lot.
It’s hard.
But heaven is worth it.
And nothing unclean will enter in (Revelation 21:27).
So repent. Turn back. Clean house.
Throw away the idols.
Tear the wigs off. Wash the makeup off.
Throw away the fake nails, the pants, the piercings.
Get back to your knees. Cry out.
Live holy for real.
Because one day, it will be too late.
And your church attendance won’t save you.
Your songs won’t save you.
Your intentions won’t save you.
Only obedience.
And as you walk this road the narrow, unpopular, lonely road
May my God give you strength to withstand.
May He keep you.
May He strip you down to truth and clothe you in grace.
And may you hear on that day,
“Well done, faithful daughter.”
