Confused

First you don't want to be my friend,
Then you say you do.
You keep changing you mind,
And you got me all confused.

I still want to be your friend,
But not at this cost.
I can't give you want you want,
Or am I leaving those who I love.

Our friendship means a lot to me,
But not enough to give me up my life.
I'm sorry you can't have everything you want,
Because you can't have me.

Take me as I am,
Or leave me as I am.
You can't have it both ways,
I won't let you.