Anyone overprotected by parents?

This sucks so bad they wont let me do sh!t and im about to just go move in with a friend i mean they are on my case for everything and im almost 20 today my dad took my cell from me because im calling a guy that im dating and kept the sims card f*** that im really at my boiling point right now any advice or comments on this?

Ur almost 20?! wow, ok. now thats just bull

u could talk 2 them about it i guess. tell them its not fair and im not a kid anymore.

Done that already that just made things worse so i finally told them that i will be moving out soon and getting a job in ATL getting an apartment and all they gave me the whole 9 yrds about that i'll have to pay for everything and all that bs but whatever im just so dam sick of this i wanna scream!!!!!

I dunno. My parents are protective of me because they love me and want what's best. I'm 16, but they do let me go out with friends and stuff. I wouldn't say that my parents are "overprotective", but they do like to know where I'm going and what I'll be doing there and with who. You know, normal parent things. And I agree with the post above me - as long as you're in their house, it's their rules.

Yep thats parents for ya. You can't live with them.. and can't live without then.

Well ill be moving out soon so im happy about that

If you were an immature little whiny teenager then I would say get over it. But by 20 it's gets to be too much. Moving out might be the best thing.

Although paying for everything by yourself..that part, not fun.

Its really putting me in a bad mood everytime i talk to them now i mean i could have had the best day ever and then i talk to them and everything just crashes down so i f*** that ya know

While I agree, your parents house means your parents rules, lets not be silly. If you are responsible and pulling your own weight (paying rent, helping around the house) your parents should respect you. If this isn't happening for reasons on either side of the fence, strike out on your own.

James by 'But by 20 it's gets to be too much.' I meant that the parents trying to control her every move is too much, not the cost.

Thanks yall im trying to get a job see i didnt have one because ive been in school but im about to grad so im finding a job right now so then ill have a cosmetology license and ill be out on my own well ill have a roommate but you know what i mean i just cant wait the wait is driving me crazy though

Lolzzz.
me so much overprotected by my parents...
sometimes i get annoyed but its fine..
things will change sooner or later..

Me, me, me pick me!!!
I know it's frustrating but it's all because they are afraid to lose us. Once they know that we are on their side and that we will never emotionally leave them they will back away.
All you need to do is talk to them and reasure them that you love them and will always be their kid.

No offense babe but its probably because you're only 13 im not meaning this in a mean way really im not she just loves you and is looking out for you you're young the same age as my sister and she cant do anything without me there or someone older shes just trying to protect you it'll get better i promise

Move out. When you live with your rents, what do you expect? They are your parents they still look at you as if you are 8. Move in with a buddy or something. I mean really, you are 20 :)

See its not as bad now but if i need to ill move in with my boyfriend he has a 3 room appartment

Wow. I'm 16 and my parents are the same way. I'm counting down the months until I turn 17 and can move out.

I don't see how you are 20 and STILL dealing with that. I feel for you, I really do. If you wanna talk or anything just pm me. I'll be happy to help if I can. (:

My boyfriend is going through the same thing but wit his grandma

Well..my parents r the most overprotecting parents ever!!
BUT i beleive that the key is trust..if u can gain their trust then problem solved..and its always better if they hav an idea abt ur bf than "finding out"..ofcourse they do so coz they care, no doubt..my parents always "find out" things abt my old sis and so they watch every step she's stepping which sucks!!..they dont believe her easily..but i always try 2 give my mom ideas abt wats goin on in college and i actually introduced her to my love as a "colleague" and so she has the feeling that she knows wat am doin and that there is no need to worry..a little relationship with them won't hurt..gain their trust..that's all!!

I'll be moving in about 10 months time...i can't wait!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My parents are a little over protective but they also had me at 15 and 16 sooo

Wish i could give advice on this, but last night, my gf broke up with me coz of this same shit... her dad... he checks her mobile, yells at her, when he knows she talks to me or sees me... ... she couldnt take it anymore, so she gave in, and she broke up with me... i have no freaking idea what to do... so ya i guess your not alone!

My mum has always been overprotective of me and it used to sh*t me off but I've got 7 month old daughter and I can see it from her point now. Although my daughters only a bub I keep thinking to future and Im scared of wat she could get up to. I would never go through her ph though. I would let her make her own choices but I would just try an educate her on life. I think 20 years old is a bit far fetched till still being an overbearing parent. They need to let go......................I dont know how your going to figure this out, I guess you might just have to find out how to communicate to them about it. Im 22 and my mum still asks where im going etc but i just repeating that Im an adult and a mum and shes slowly letting up. I hope you figure it out with your parents though.