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Im 16 seeing this guy whos 18
were sleeping together just wondering what you guys think about the age differece .. some of my friends say its wrong but i think 2 years is fine
just wondering but other thoughts would be good.
thanks

Well, ignoring the other sort of rude answer. I think two years isn't really a big difference. Just make sure your government's laws are okay with the sex thing. and be careful. :)

If you need to ask, obviously you're not okay with it.

i personally find nothing wrong as 16 is the age of consent [at least here], but it varies from person to person on how morally right you find it..

Well...i am 16 with an 19 year old...but around here 16 is the age of consent, so we have nothing to worry about. i think the age difference is fine

My last boyfriend and me had a 3 year age gap. Age is just a number and love does not pay attention to trivial things of that sort. If you are happy, and he is happy then the age difference should be of no worries to either of you.

It's not that big of a deal, as long as you are comfortable with it... Don't listen to what people say, decide for yourself....
xoxo

^ Haha, that as well as, "Age is just a number and love does not pay attention to trivial things of that sort."

Trivial? Maybe in some situations, maybe this one being there only a 2yr age difference or maybe not considering he's an adult & she's not. Someone might what to think logically about that statement some more.

I don't think there's a problem at all.

^ Well said!

Does it really matter what we think? It won't change what has been done, nor will it stop what you want to do again. We are but strangers here....our words should mean less to you then the thoughts of those closest to you.

I wonder why our opinions matter more than what your parents do?

Instead of asking total strangers you should be seeking advice and guidance from those that have raised you and have YOUR best interest in mind.

I think that you are here seeking our approval because you know that you mom, dad, and others that your truly respect and look up to will not agree with the actions that you are choosing to display.

Point blank... If I found out that my daughter was having sex at the age of 16 with an 18 year old.. well, the law would be called, BUT I would more than likely be the one going to jail cause I would hurt BOTH of them.

You are still a child and you have your whole life ahead of you. Having sex now is not something that you can take back and say oops that was a mistake let's erase it.

There are also severe set backs when you become involved in a sexual relationship at such a young age. Not just physical, but also emotional.

Take the advice from those that have lived life and know the repercussions that you will definitely face later in life for that actions that you chose today.

Also, instead of asking us if it is okay for you to do something.. try getting mom and dads blessing first.

Just my two cents on the subject

~~Sher

Amanda i have something to say about something you said "What do you think an 18 year old wants with a 16 year old... A good conversation? HA right! Looks like he got what he was after any ways."

like you have the right to judge someone you dont even know. i am with a 19 year old and when i tell him no to sex then he apologizes and says nothing else about it and he still loves me either way. since when does every guy have to only be after that "one thing?" not all men are the same. and me andthis guy have been together for over 2 years! our relationship doesnt revolve around sex. there have been times when we had stayed the night together without doing anything. Maybe a guy that age may have only wanted sex from you when you were that age. but that doesnt mean that there are not decent guys out there. you need to think more carefully before you judge someone. and i will be the first to tell you that.

16&18???? Ummm 2 years?? Thats not bad at all. Plus who cares what your friends say. They should be happy for you

This thread makes me giggle

Why are you thinking of having sex at 16 anyway?? Shouldn't you be braiding hair and studying? lol

Aw, bless ya.

I don't know where all of you are from, and I really don't feel like trawling through all of your profiles to check. But in the UK it's legal to have sex at 16.
Once you turn 16 you can play the lotto and potentially win millions of pounds too. I know, that's irrelevant but I just wanted to point out how 16 year olds in the UK are trusted.
I still agree through that you shouldn't be having sex at 16, although I did when I was 15, it was the biggest mistake of my life. I was so stupid.
I know you will have to make your own mistake to learn, but please take the advise from everyone on here and wait it out.

Age doesn't mean crap to me. I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 23. I love him. My parents hated it at first but they met him. We've lived happily ever after since!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

I think teenage girls should be teenage girls. That means go to the mall, movies, spend five hours in the bathroom a day getting ready to make boys like you... but don't have sex with them.

I honestly think that teenage girls control teenage boys. No offence guys, but it's true. If girls give in then boys get it. So, in all honesty if the girls hold back the boys will have to wait.

Sounds like a plan? I think everyone should follow it.

AND, for those who don't I suggest you research EVERY POSSIBLE PROTECTION AVAILABLE. And stay in your own age group, don't go for the older guys - stay under 18 year olds. Saves you, your partner, and your family and friends a lot of stress.

Not that stress doesn't also come from sex before maturity and/or marriage.
BUT, REMEMER: Having sex at a young age DOES NOT prove maturity but immaturity!