What do you think? Opinions?=/

Thinking i came to ask myself, do you really need to depend on another person to be happy? Does not being in a relationship always = being lonely? Because i think i do infact rely on other people for my happiness which i know isnt good. Either love is a very complex thing, or it is extremely simple i dont know. All i know are the expierences of love i've had which probably werent real LOVE, just sorta "thinking you were in love" infactuation, because i do believe that real love comes with age and with life experiences and sacrifices. Still looking at all the couples and hearing about all the sweet things he or she says, does cause me to feel a little down because to be honest i know what its like to have that feeling and it is the best damn feeling ever.. Whatever it is.

And even if the breakups are all very sad emotional and hard to get through, its always, always worth it because of the beautiful times that were shared..and the things you learn which change you to be that much smarter for the next one..I know its human nature to want and desire having that special someone love you and loving them back its just that it doesnt really happen all that often and when it does i guess you have to make shure to embrace it for as long as you can and then learn how to let go if it ends.. well i think ive ranted on about enough,

that's very true. i feel the same way a lot of times... that i do in fact rely on other people too much. i know this because while i still have a tendancy to push people away, in the end i feel empty without them. that pushes me to feel that i need someone in my life, like a boyfriend, but i'm unhappy either way... all in all it's really just a learning experience with each person that you're with. you have the good and the bad, but at least you learn from it now and not later in life.
much love sammy,
-A

i agree with what you said...and it really isn't good to have one person control all of your happiness....it's not healthy....and ends badly

well, having to reley on one person to be happy is a bad idea, cause it just might come to an end. But we can't be alone either. Have more friends, and have fun with them. this way, if there's a problem with one friend, there are still plenty of friends to keep the party going

I think you have to have ppl in your life to be happy, you have to know ppl love you so you dont feel so alone. As for like a boyfriend or girlfriend (if your a guy), well i dont think you need one to be happy.. you always have friends n family who will be there to have good times, a shoulder to cry on and just hang out.